How do I build the right HABITS??
Hiiii!!!
For a long time I feel like I've been stuck at the first step on my sissy journey, and I wanted to ask if anyone has any real, tangible advice that I could implement into my life. Not just smut...
I want to stop using my clitty completely. This has been my only sexual goal for ages!!! I'm 21 and i haven't dated in a long time (I'm straight! i just like dom girls!) i want to switch to being caged and just getting off with anal but.... despite having a bunch of plugs and trainer sets and stuff, I always found the prep took way too long and when I'm horny I kind of just touch like a boy or with my vibrator and be done with it. I cum most days. I also own 5 or 6 chastity cages (all of them cheap plastic or metal ones with multiple ring sizes!) but they all hurt after 15 minutes or so. My girly parts feel like they're really cold or really hot and then start to hurt so I always take it off.
Does anyone have any advice for building habits that could allow me to overcome these problems? Things I can do routinely? Sites or apps that can track my progress? Anything! I feel like the only way I can break through with anal is if I work out how to make it faster and more convenient and/or a habit. I come home from work and I'm tired and I just want to do my thing usually and yeah 😅
Also with the chastity specifically, does anyone know how I could go about that? I've tried bigger rings but it mostly doesn't seem to help... maybe the cages are too small? Ugh I'm at a loss because I find chastity so cute I just can't get it to not hurt 😞