WARNING!
Safety warning for anyone considering playing with this person:
I had communicated that anal play was a boundary for me. During our encounter, when he attempted it, I told him in the moment that I did not want him to do that. He continued anyway and forcefully penetrated me with his finger despite my telling him no.
I was injured and experienced ongoing bleeding afterward that required me to seek medical attention.
When I confronted him afterward, he acknowledged that what he did was wrong and apologized.
I’m sharing this because consent matters, particularly in kink spaces. This wasn’t a misunderstanding about an unspoken preference. I told him no in the moment, and my no was disregarded.
Please use this information to make your own informed decision about whether you feel comfortable playing with him.