Personal trainer offered me his class, the only catch is...
I was really insecure about my body back when I was 18, so I’ve been cutting weight ever since. Up until today, I’ve lost almost 20kg over about two years. But as you guys know, that "belly pouch" is the hardest thing to get rid of. I’ve been struggling with it and feeling so stressed out.
I did some research on how to get rid of it, but I wasn't comfortable approaching any personal trainers—especially since we have the internet and AI to help us these days. That was until one day, an Arab guy reached out to me on Snapchat. I’ve always loved Arab guys. I don’t know why, but maybe it’s their natural beauty. I mean, a masculine, hairy guy with natural eyelashes? 💅 (Gosh! If you’re Arab and reading this... hey there! 🙈)
We talked about a lot of things as we got to know each other. After some time, he mentioned that he was struggling to find subscribers for his training program because he was new to the platform. I took my chance and told him that I was also struggling to find a coach to help build my physique—even though, in reality, I was just scared and too insecure to do one-on-one coaching.
At first, he didn't seem to care much. I was waiting for him to offer to help or something. But when I mentioned that I had already lost almost 20kg and wanted abs, that triggered his interest. He started asking about my routine, what I eat, and if I hit the gym. I confessed that I used to be insecure about my body, so I went on extreme diets, over-exercised, did Intermittent Fasting (IF), One Meal A Day (OMAD), and basically anything I could. I was honestly terrified of eating.
He felt really sorry for me and explained the dangers of doing things that way. I told him I’m doing much better now compared to the past, but that I really wanted to get abs, even just mini ones lol. And guess what he said! He offered to be my personal trainer because he wanted me to be his success story/testimony student.
He made me a one-week routine covering exercises and what to consume from the moment I wake up until I sleep. He told me to strictly follow the 3-day routine he gave me without cheating. He was incredibly strict and would text me every 6 hours. I did it, but I hated it lol. On the third day, he even called me while I was sleeping, despite our time zone difference.
After a week, it didn't show massive progress, but I could feel myself turning into a completely different person. That’s when I asked how I could pay him back, since he had originally said he just wanted to help. This is where the twist happened. He told me not to worry about payment... but if I really wanted to return the favor for his kindness, I just needed to record myself doing the exercises shirtless. 🙈🙈🙈
I was so shocked. I thought maybe he was just joking, but I know the difference between his humor and when he’s being dead serious. To be honest, deep down, I was thrilled because the person I was trying to flirt with had just made the first move. Just to mention, he is straight! That’s why I was afraid to make a move myself, but since he already did, I figured I should just enjoy the moment.
At first, I was nervous, so I suggested wearing tight clothing instead so he could still see my form. I was also afraid he might save the video and post it publicly. But since he’s a good guy, I asked him, "What if we just do a video call and you watch me do the exercises... with nothing on?"
HE AGREED! So we did a video call. He showed me an exercise video and asked me to replicate it. I could see how much this handsome man appreciated what he was looking at. I even joked with him, saying, "I might just make you change teams." He laughed it off and said nope, he likes girls. After a few sessions—for about a week, I guess—he texted me saying he wanted to introduce me to a foreign friend of his online who is gay. From Poland, if I’m not mistaken. He showed me his picture, gave me his number, and said, "Don't tell him I showed you his picture."
Turns out, that guy wasn't into Asians; he wanted Arabs (and hey, I'm into Arabs too). After that, everything went back to normal. It seemed like he only wanted that one-time naked video call exercise session, lol. I kept doing my exercises for about two weeks without him asking to call, so I figured maybe he felt guilty.
Until one day... he texted me a photo showing off his muscles. I was so impressed 🥵 and I could feel his energy burning through the photos. So, I used my ultimate power and replied with a picture of my current body. Guess what? He called me instantly. This time, he wanted to... \*and the rest is history. 🙈
We keep texting each other now. I feel guilty and proud at the same time, lol. I managed to flip him to the other team, and he feels comfortable being his true self around me. He’s a really funny guy who loves to joke around. Not a single text goes by without making me blush.
So yeah... find a person you can truly be yourself with. And be a good friend, I guess, lol. I’ve been through so many more experiences. Maybe I'll post about them another day. To those who don't believe my story, feel free to keep scrolling. And thanks to whoever read until the very end. APPRECIATE IT! 🥰
What do u guys suggest? Should i dated him👉👈