u/HypnoCurious2510

Hello there, this might sound a bit weird, but I have quite some experiences with findom (especially with cis female Dommes, but also some with a variety of people). I'm not strictly a finsub, I don't get off on the "paying aspect" itself, I really like the overwhelming tension until the Dom/Domme makes me give in and pay them and then again and then again. The thing is: Most of the time this gets out of hand.

Sure, now you can say: Hey, there are a lot of trustworthy and reliable people out there. But trust and really relying on someone takes time. I am open for it, most of the Doms/Dommes are not - understandably in my opinion. They have lots of subs who pay them without much to do, so why should they spend time on me who's fantasy is not paying but being overwhelmed to pay.

This brought me to a new idea: Why not being manipulated/hypnotized into needing to pay Doms/Dommes but not by the dominant person themselves but by someone who also likes to indulge in the idea of this behaviour modification?

I would really like to experience the change of my thought patterns, the break-down of my resistance and I am really open for it.

So is this a weird idea? Is it stupid? Or what do you think?

Hello there, this might sound a bit weird, but I have quite some experiences with findom (especially with cis female Dommes, but also some with a variety of people). I'm not strictly a finsub, I don't get off on the "paying aspect" itself, I really like the overwhelming tension until the Dom/Domme makes me give in and pay them and then again and then again. The thing is: Most of the time this gets out of hand.

Sure, now you can say: Hey, there are a lot of trustworthy and reliable people out there. But trust and really relying on someone takes time. I am open for it, most of the Doms/Dommes are not - understandably in my opinion. They have lots of subs who pay them without much to do, so why should they spend time on me who's fantasy is not paying but being overwhelmed to pay.

This brought me to a new idea: Why not being manipulated/hypnotized into needing to pay Doms/Dommes but not by the dominant person themselves but by someone who also likes to indulge in the idea of this behaviour modification?

I would really like to experience the change of my thought patterns, the break-down of my resistance and I am really open for it.

So is this a weird idea? Is it stupid? Or what do you think?

Hello there, this might sound a bit weird, but I have quite some experiences with findom (especially with cis female Dommes, but also some with a variety of people). I'm not strictly a finsub, I don't get off on the "paying aspect" itself, I really like the overwhelming tension until the Dom/Domme makes me give in and pay them and then again and then again. The thing is: Most of the time this gets out of hand.

Sure, now you can say: Hey, there are a lot of trustworthy and reliable people out there. But trust and really relying on someone takes time. I am open for it, most of the Doms/Dommes are not - understandably in my opinion. They have lots of subs who pay them without much to do, so why should they spend time on me who's fantasy is not paying but being overwhelmed to pay.

This brought me to a new idea: Why not being manipulated/hypnotized into needing to pay Doms/Dommes but not by the dominant person themselves but by someone who also likes to indulge in the idea of this behaviour modification?

I would really like to experience the change of my thought patterns, the break-down of my resistance and I am really open for it.

So is this a weird idea? Is it stupid? Or what do you think?