Nothing at all against trans women or cisgender women, but going through most of the sissy subreddits you find that there are few real sissies on there.

For me, the appeal of a sissy is that they are men who have had all masculinity removed from them. That's what makes sissies so sexy.

I'm a dom, explain to me what is techdomming and how to do it.

There are different types of sissies, not all are monoliths of course. In general though, sissies are failed men. That's what makes them the sexiest thing in the world. Domming the pathetic slut and removing every last trace of man there is. Turning them into the perfect woman.

But I see a trend among early sissies, in the porn they watch and they fantasies they have. They want a female domme to force them across the line. That's vestiges of manhood still there.

Sissy, if you want to truly surrender all your manhood, don't you think you should stop seeing woman as things that turn you on sexually? The brain is an amazing thing, you can train it to only be turned on by men.

What's stopping you from starting now?

Imagine that there is no safety or health risk, what would you say is your most disgusting and depraved fantasy that turns you on immensely?

I've talked with many sissies and only one has asked for aftercare. I've found some sissies find that it breaks the immersion?

I wanted to ask a couple of questions:

Q1) Do you have aftercare needs?

Q2) What are your aftercare needs?

Q3) Do you feel safe and secure enough to tell a dom what your aftercare needs are?

Q4) Do you find that doms generally are good at aftercare or bad?

Q5) How do you feel if you don't get adequate aftercare?

I'm very curious, from my end I don't really see the appeal but I've talked to sissies that think the opposite.

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If you like tributes and dick pics from doms, can you describe exactly how it makes you feel? What do you do with the pictures?

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If you don't like them, then also mention what you would prefer receiving from your dom.

I've just now realized that in my day to day life, I've probably met at least a couple of sissies while they were in boy mode. Wearing their clit cages and panties under their clothes thinking that no one else was aware.

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Sissies, I have two questions for you.

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Question 1) Is there a way I can tell if someone is a submissive sissy when they are in boy mode?

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Question 2) Assuming that a dom found out that you were a sissy in real life. Is there a way you would like a dom to approach you? What would work?

I've engaged in blackmail kinks multiple times with sissies, it's very fun. I've gotten: face pics with their IDs, body writing pics, videos of very demeaning acts, boss's contact details, house location, social security numbers, bank account information, etc.

As you can see, it's a very dangerous kink.

The below is a guide on how I do that. I'm well experienced. You could take it as a warning of some sort. Of how to protect yourself from getting a dom like me in getting this information out of you.

Step 1: Getting to know each other phase

First thing is you need to get to know your sissy as a person. What hobbies do they have? How long have they been a sissy? Answer their questions too so that they know you.

This is building the rapport stage. Sissies love to be sexualized but they also want to be humanized too.

Step 2: Allow the sissy to initially escalate

Don't immediately start asking for anything. In fact, don't even ask for something as basic as a locked clit pic. Sissies love showing off, it's in their nature. They will ask you permission to send pics.

Allowing the sissy to initially control the pacing is very important.

There is this concept of escalating yes or escalating no. You want to avoid as much as possible for the sissy to say no to you. Because it's a very hard habit to break once they get started.

So you NEED to start off small. And get them in the habit of saying yes and obeying. And slowly increasing the severity of the ask.

Key Characteristic: Patience

This is key in getting the real juicy blackmail material. An impatient dom won't be able to do it. He will spook the sissy too early

Step 3: Compliment the sissy

There is nothing that a sissy loves to hear more than a compliment. Doms usually keep stuff like this close to the vest, they shouldn't. Let the sissy know her ass turned you on. Let her know that her panties are very sexy on her.

She will soak it up.

You are establishing this dopamine feedback loop. Everytime she does something sexy, she will eagerly wait for you to compliment her. Checking her phone 10-20 times an hour waiting for you to give her that dopamine hit.

You want her chasing this dopamine high. And the fun part about it, she will need to give you ever escalating material for her to keep feeling it.

Initially a clit pic will get her heart racing. But then, it won't do to for her anymore. She will need to give riskier and riskier material to get the same feeling.

Step 4: Getting your first blackmail material

Get the sissy horny, here it's very beneficial if they have a humiliation kink. And then ask for some true blackmail material. If you've done all the previous steps correctly, the sissy will send you something.

And soon after, she will feel immense fear and regret. She will ask you to delete it. Do so when asked. End all talk and tell them that if they wish to continue, they can reach out to you.

Step 5: Restarting play

Remember, you've made the sissy so addicted to the dopamine feedback loop you setup. And now, it's been cut cold turkey.

There is a good chance that they will wish to restart play. But they've said no once. So you are getting a sissy that has two parts of her brain fighting. The sissy side that wants to fully surrender to an alpha male and the male rational side that's giving her dangerous warning flags.

The key to continuing is to let the sissy control play completely. Do not escalate at all.

This will keep her male rational side from ending play. But her sissy side will be very disappointed. She will ask you why you aren't controlling and escalating like last time.

Be honest. Tell her that last time she asked you to delete everything. You understand why, it's a dangerous kink. But at the same time, you don't wish to waste your time too.

Step 6: Escalation again

Soon they will beg you to restart the blackmail stuff. That dopamine feedback loop you setup is too strong. Sending a basic clit pic isn't doing it for them anymore. Their brain now needs much more risky material to feel that rush.

Warn them that it's dangerous and that if they send more material, they don't control what happens to it. They can ask for you to delete it of course. But they can't guarantee that you do.

They will accept and start sending you the most damning blackmail material.

The End

It's fun breaking sissy's minds like this. I'm sadistic and I get great enjoyment doing this.

I have my DMs off for now. But tell me sissy. Imagine if I did have all that blackmail material on you, how would you feel?

What if I wanted you to become a live in sissy wife for me? Join a harem of sissy women. Would you do it?

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It's just a fun little fantasy is all. It's not like you are actually going to do this. Tell me my horny little slut. What kinds of blackmail material would you end up giving me?