u/Interstellar11117

Hey, kinda what it says…haha a white guy, I like guys who are tall & I have this fantasy about being dominated by a military guy. The uniforms hottttt, not even going to lie lol 😂 I am able to host.

Make sure to include your age & a little about yourself in the DM.

& yes I’m real and no I am not going to send you a link or menu on here lol

So I’ve posted on here in the past, but got rid of Reddit because I felt like I wasn’t ready yet)

I know this isn’t the place for this post 😂 but it’s an Oahu subreddit **& I’m on Oahu, you’re on Oahu- nam’**sayin? 😂😘 I feel like there could be someone on island like me normal just kinda scrolling on here out of curiosity too.
An outlier…maybe that’s you.

I’m Curvy/thick in the right places, pretty face, genuine smile, smaller waist big boobs, nice 🍑 & thick thighs, Asian American, just turned** **35

Personality: down to earth, kind hearted, compassionate, genuine, I’m the kind of person who will get on my knees to play with dogs, passionate, everyone’s fav auntie, loves to laugh, be spontaneous, thoughtful- someone who isn’t afraid to apologize. Knows who I am & what I bring to the table.
Which is a home of peace and laughter. I can be shy at first, but once you get to know me I’m instantly everyone’s favorite person 😂

I have a job that requires to me have my clothes on 😂 I realized I need to make that clear on here

I am in the middle of a divorce (have my own place set up. We ended on civil terms. We are still friends. Completely broken up, no chance of reconciliation. No drama. No kids. Just not the right match)

So….I have an idea.

Maybe you’re someone who is just like me- in the middle of a divorce with no kids but open to the idea one day down the line

I think it would be nice to get to know someone completely pressure free. No expectations but similar goals in mind. I am sure one day I will be remarried (so If you’ve had a vasectomy, this might not be for you 😂 I can’t tell you how many people said they had a vasectomy the last time I posted so I figured it might be a good idea to write that lmao)

Very much a homemaker type. I love cooking so much (like making fresh jam even, making bread, I can pretty much cook and bake anything) & love making a home feel like a home but especially making the man in my life feel like a man. In more ways than one ;)

Very much a summer dress with my hair always done barefoot at home natural cutie but can also be a tight dress baddie at night, with the right person

Super feminine but also a badass at sports.

I read about 75-100 books a year.

Definitely the girl next door type, just the one you know is secretly naughty.

One of the things I miss most about being married is packing my husbands lunch, writing sweet notes in his lunch pail telling him how proud I am of him along with a nude Polaroid of me. I miss having dinner ready for my partner & enjoying that with someone.
Not him that I miss but caring about some enough to do that)
So I’d love to meet someone who also appreciates that in a woman.

What I would like to do with someone I’m dating:
🌺Holding eachother by the bonfire on the beach just listening to the waves together
🌺I recently started running on the beach & would love someone to come with me…and then maybe take a dip together.. 😉
(Trying to get in the best shape possible right now & would love to do that together)
🌺Enjoying all the fun stuff the island has to offer together
🌺I’m getting a telescope and I would love to go star gazing together, I can pack us a picnic :)
🌺I love camping and would love to go together, especially somewhere by a lake
🌺Traveling is a HUGE part of my life, I travel a few times a year (domestically at least 3x usually and internationally once a year) I’ve traveled around the world and would love someone just as adventurous as I am.
Used to travel 3x internationally yearly and kinda slowed down during the pandemic. Maybe we start again together? :)
I have a bucket list of places I want to visit
🌺Someone free spirited, who doesn’t talk about work a lot. The second I get home I don’t want to talk about it lol. I want to be bent over the counter.
Someone Who understands that we work to live not live to work. (You still gotta have some type of career going for you though)
🌺Someone with a great sense of humor
But especially someone who is open to talking things through. Who is open enough to say how they’re feeling and being real. I respect that in a man
🌺someone genuinely kind

So why a guy going through a divorce?
I think there’s something so special about getting what someone’s feeling without even needing to say a word. That soul deep connection.
I think that’s true intimacy.
The truth is, there really is no one else who truly gets what we’re going through right now.
I feel like anytime I talk to someone all they want to talk about is my divorce….like bro I didn’t leave this marriage to talk about my ex. I did it to move on.
Let’s talk about us 😉

I got asked this a lot when I last posted but Yes, if you are single and never married you can still send me a still private message me.

As long as you’re mature & not going to ask me if I’m actually getting a divorce- or a million questions about him- the truth is there are plentyyyyy of men willing to sleep with someone who is married. I have no reason to lie. Truly.
I feel like I keep getting persecuted with weird questions when I’ve made it very clear we are never getting back together, I am done. It completely kills the vibe/ mood- because they’re basically asking me if I’m a liar when I had no need to be so honest and open. It’s an awful feeling and it would be nice to talk to someone else going through this. It instantly takes me out of my soft feminine side/ to feeling defensive because it doesn’t feel good to be accused when you’re doing nothing wrong.

I am very much someone who would like to do lots of things with 1 person, I have no interest in having no more than 1 man inside me.

I’m going to be honest…I’m so horny and I hope a good match is out there for all the things I want.
So he’s sex is very important to me but I also want to get to know you.

So what do I like in a potential partner:
Someone who loves to laugh
I love tall guys (guys who are 6’4-6’6 are soooo hot) This isn’t a must but definitely brownie points
If you’re at least like 6’1 that’s fine
Like really tall white guys…especially the ones originally born & raised from the middle of nowhere like Indiana 🤣🤣
I’m always like Jesus what’s in that corn lmao

I like blondes & dirty blonde men ugh 🙃 - but I’m open to other hair colors too lol- I’m more about facial attractiveness.

Someone who knows they want
Someone who just says things what they’re thinking feeling, a straight shooter (ain’t nobody got time for all these childish games 😂)
Like if you’re a f boy, just say it- we live in different times now lol like please just don’t bring that here it’s so annoying.
Oh and If you have problems with yourself with not being able to be emotionally unavailable, save us both time and do not bring that here pretty please and thank you.

I would strongly prefer if you lived south of Oahu…so we can have quickies during break would be sooo hot.

So I have an idea, we meet at a bar by the beach. (not really a drinker but will babysit 1 drink for the occasion lmao) Let me know what you’re wearing, I’ll let you know what I’m wearing & we see if the chemistry is there?

I will not respond to anyone who doesn’t respond with their ethnicity, age, height, what you do (I just need to make you’re you have something going for you and are not one of my colleagues) & a little about yourself.

You must live on island, not that you might move here but that you live here and have been living here.

Xo

My favorite movies:
Interstellar, The Martian, Divergent, Maze Runner, The Penguin on hbo max- hands down the best thing DC has put out in a while (series), In Time, Life is Beautiful, The Fifth Element, My Cousin Vinny, Armageddon, Anchorman, Star Wars, Shawshank Redemption, Peaky Blinders (series), American History X, Huge on mafia films- casino, A Bronx Tale, Goodfellas.
Tarantino films, The Continental, JOHN WICK FTW etc

Favorite Athletes of all time: Michael Jordan, Larry Bird (honestly probably my fav of all time. The definitely of white boy swag) Luka Doncic, Messi, Kobe.

When I'm not working: I love to go to the beach, hike, I love painting nude while playing one of my vinyl records on my record player, I love going to sporting events, love watching a good game. I love ziplining and snorkeling as well