u/Key_Abrocoma578

A little back story. The first girl I ever confessed my fetish to hated it. We were together almost 3 years and she would insult me, make me feel weird, it would be a constant argument between us with me telling her if she couldn't accept it then she would need to leave me. No matter how many times I insisted that it wasn't going away and if she would be happy elsewhere she was free to leave she never would. Eventually the relationship got so bad, she cheated on me and then told people about my fetish. I was around 18 at that point and in college and man.. was I in a tough spot with my fetish. I felt outcasted, like a freak, etc.. Etc. Through college/ some of my adult life (between 18 and 23) no matter how many girls I hooked up with, tried to date, or dated I never told anyone.

Fast forward to when I first met the woman who would become my wife. I knew as soon as I met her something was different with her, the feeling romantically was different and I had a strong feeling there was something there. Well, we started dating and about two months into us dating she was at my house. She had just gotten out of the shower, dried off and gotten dressed and headed to the living room of the house I had back then. I walked in the living room and saw her lying upset down with her feet past the head on the recliner. I knew the SECOND I saw her bare feet for the first time that there's no way in hell I could hide it.

I took some time to myself to think about how to word it, what to say, how to say it and finally just ended up confessing over text almost 3 months into our relationship. She told me she had a feeling because I had kissed her foot during sex once, and she always saw me looking and told me she'd be willing to try, and I didn't pressure her on it at all. I just basically told her, "This is me, this isn't going away so I hope you at least tolerate it because I have tried and it's not something I can live without."

So shortly after that we met after work, she had her toenails painted black, she sat behind me and gave me a footjob while she kissed and bit my neck and from there it was history.

I have been lucky for almost 8 years to do anything I want to her feet pretty much any time I want.. But for those of you who haven't "confessed", here are some tips I really, really want those who may be younger adults or those who may be a bit backwards or haven't confessed to know.

1. With the rise of popularity of foot fetishism don't do what I did. There's no "confession." Don't be nervous, just bring it up naturally because the right woman will not give a fuck if she loves you.

2. I think around the 2-3 month mark is the perfect time to have the conversation. That's usually around the time relationship starts getting more intimate/ sexual and you should know each other (personality-wise) first and foremost before that comes on the table. Once a connection is formed things are more easily accepted and talked about.

3. This is a foot fetish sub, so most of all of our posts are going to be foot centric, but there is WAY more to life than feet. Yes, you deserve to indulge and you deserve for someone to love you for who you are, but so does SHE. Her kinks, her interests, hobbies, likes matter to. You need to give to her what you expect her to give to you.

4. If she is grossed out, don't push it. You may not be sexually compatible, but it's better to know early than to ignore or push it out. The longer you are together, the better the connection, the deeper the love and if you don't let her see the real you not only will it be hard on you to leave emotionally but it will be hard on her also emotionally.

Around 1-2 in 4 men have foot fetishes. You aren't weird unless YOU make it weird. It's the most vanilla fetish on Earth and harmless. So be you, be confident, don't force anything and respect boundaries. Best of luck to all of you out there.

As I've said before this is an account of someone who used to post here sometimes but my old account got hacked so some of you may have heard these before.

First is the time her and my D&D group were playing dungeons and dragons. I was sitting diagonal from her (imagine a clock I was at the 6 position, she was around the 9) and under the table she reached her barefoot up onto my crotch and teased me the majority of the time we were playing D&D.

Another time is when my brother and I (who used to be my roommate) lived together and we were playing Co op borderlands, he was on the floor and we were on the couch. She got us a blanket, laid on her side and covered us both up and gave me a foot job under the blanket while the lights were off.

Another time was when she told me (we were at a wedding) that I could fuck her feet later. Well, we both ended up getting too drunk to drive so we had to crash at a buddy's and I think she could tell I was kind of sad. Well, we got back to their apartment and hung out for a bit before passing out. I woke up to her stroking my dick with her feet and she smiled and said, "We had a deal, I told you that you could fuck my feet, remember."

Yet another time was when we were eating at the Mellow mushroom (we were on our honey moon), she kicked off her sandal and rubbed my dick outside of my pants for some of the dinner we had.

Lastly was the time we were at yet another wedding. Wedding had ended and her and I/ along with some of our friends went back to our hotel rooms to change. After we got done changing we made an alcohol and snack run to Wal Mart. Our two friends went into the store while we stayed back (it was probably around 9-10 pm, it was dark). In the back seat she took off her shoes and put them in my lap and said, "How would you like to suck my toes with all these people around?" (we were in a car), I just smiled and went to town until we saw our friends coming out the Wal mart door.

Thank you for reading!

To preface my wife is going on a trip with her buddies starting tomorrow morning and will be returning Monday. That being said I will be watching the pets, cleaning the house, grocery shopping, etc. Which I don't mind to do, I'm not a pos husband and do most of those things anyways, but she still feels bad that she won't be contributing and will miss seeing me, so what followed is amazing.

We started off with her foot care routine we do twice a week, we did it Tuesday (check my last post for in depth descripyion of what that entails. So her feet currently are in prestine condition and feel like clouds (her feet stay in pretty damn good condition, but righy now it's absolutely top of the line). So yesterday after work we were laying in bed because we were both absolutely exhausted. As we were laying there, she reaches her feet over and gives me a sideways footjob to completion, which was amazing obviously.

After that she suggested we go to wal mart to pick up some last minute things from her trip, so we went there, got a bite to eat and came back home. When we came back I was sitting on the couch, she came from downstairs and sat beside me and asked if I'd like to sit by her feet (which I obviously obliged). I sat there rubbing her feet, eventually kissed her soles, sucked her toes until she could see me visibly getting hard so she used the other foot to play around with my cock until she says, "Would you like to go upstairs?"

We go upstairs and she rides me until I explode inside of her, we end up watching TV, go to bed, fast forward now I'm working (I work from home). As I am working she comes in and sits in this chair opposite of me I have in my office. She kicks off her mellow purple slide house shoes and says, "I just want you to know my feet are cold and clammy if you wanna get one more in before I leave."

I got up from my computer so fast and followed her into the room. She laid on her stomach, I lathered her soles in her vanilla marshmallow body butter, stuck her feet together and fucked her feet for a good 5-7 minutes until I came all over them.

She is now gone, and won't return until Monday, but my god am I riding a high right now lol.

Hello all,

I used to be a part of this community a few years ago, but my old reddit account got hacked so I had to make a new one, get my flair up, etc to now post here again. That being said let's get into it.

I see a lot of posts on here asking about best lubes, ways to make feet soft, best polishes, etc so I am going to try to cover that all here to hopefully help some of you out. I feel I am well versed in this category due to the fact I have been with my wife for going on 8 years and opened up about my foot fetish around the 3 month mark. Without further ado, here we go. (if you need links just let me know).

For starters we do foot care twice a week, and every 2nd Sunday is re-polish day.

First Sunday: Full care

Wake up: upon waking up I apply Straderm active care solution

This stuff helps fight fungal growth, helps cutical support, cracks and roughness among other things. It rubs in quite easy, so once it does I apply Qtica Smart Spa Peach Bellini Luxury Lotion (this stuff was recommended by the woman who usually does my wife's pedicures, it's really good lotion) to seal in the moisture. Then I put on her blue gel socks.

The evening:

I start by filling up her foot bath with warm water, white vinegar and baking soda. She soaks for about twenty minutes, uses a pummus stone to remove dead skin, then starts polishing her nails. The polish we like (because it lasts long and looks really good) is a gel polish called: Olive & June

They have a whole kit as well with top coat, base coat and the LED lamp, plus PLENTY of gorgeous gel nail colors for a decent price as well.

Once she is done polishing/ exfoliating with the pummus stone, we use a homemade sugar scrub (olive oil, brown sugar, grapefruit juice). Apply on the feet, wrap in plastic wrap and leave for 20 min and then rinse off.

Once the sugar scrub is rinsed off apply an oil, we use Yoni rescue (I prefer the honey bae peach oil scent)

Then we put on a pair of gel socks. I have a blue pair and pink pair for her. Blue are for the mornings, pink are for the evenings, so the pink would apply in this scenario.

Once the body oil dries, we apply the lotion I mentioned above (Peach Bellini) and she keeps the socks on for a couple hours or sleeps in them.

Wed or Thurs:

Moisture/ soak

Wed or Thurs we focus on moisture and soak. I draw the same foot bath, same sugar scrub, pummus, all that jazz. The only difference is this time no body oil, this time we use a product called Honey Heel Glaze (I can't brag on this product enough):

We put on her pink gel socks, and let that dry, and then I will apply the peach Bellini lotion again.

Footjobs:

If you have a Buff City Soap near you, please please please go pick out a body butter for your lady. It is the best lubricant for a foot job hands down. You can do custom scents or their pre-made scents. I prefer the pink sugar (cotton candy) or the vanillow (vanilla marshmallow) runs about $13 and lasts a really long time.

The socks I mentioned above are a must buy, five below is the place to get them

I hope I helped, if anyone has any questions or needs links just let me know!