u/Lagrangio

We are going to be more selective on the level of nudity/pornography on the motivation and inspo posts just because it does put off some people from engaging in the community

We are definitely welcoming of people from the bdsm background (where this is common) coming into domestic patriarchy but the primary essence of the subreddit is to encourage people to live that life that bdsm can allude to (be his receptacle, have his children, devote yourself to him with all of you). To talk about their process, to encourage others and the hope is for people to find that integration between the level of submission in their sexual relationship being including holistically into domestic patriarchy at home.

To posters: it's still okay to have nudity, the captions are beautiful and inspiring but sometimes the level of pornography can put off people from some people engaging with the place. Keep posting, some will be removed others won't. Don't feel nerfed in your ambitions. You are welcome here.

To be clear we are not prudish, a wife is a tilth for her husband and can and should be used in as many ways as he wishes. That can include acts that others feel obscene but feels right within the relationship.

But we are stick to the textual verbal inspirational and foundational on this subreddit so people get inspired to live this domestic patriarchal life and encourage others.

My hope is making this community one that religious or patriarchal high libido high sex drive dominant men and submissive women can feel inspired and connected in a loose association community. It is a offramp from bdsm onto patriarchy while retaining and respecting the best elements from there.

There will be some nudity in our grandfathered posts as well as new ones but moving forward we will be more selective as to what passes

A user was invited to the community only for it to become clear that they were using chatgpt to falsify themselves.

They have since been banned.

I'll be keeping a internal name and shame list of these individuals. Which wouldn't be published publicly but will be retained.

Be wary in the era of chat gpt how people are behaving.

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Inspired by a woman from this post

https://x.com/i/status/2052343995121205513

She talks about having made a pact with her husband to never go more than 72 hours without having sex with him and how that transformed her life and relationship even after having children with him.

One thing that happens with a lot of mothers is that they go into baby nest and protect mode when they've had children. They worry about them so much they aren't able to fulfill their marital obligations of continuous and regular sex with their husband to satiate him and connect them both together. Then years pass of dead bedroom and they're shocked that he's been looking at other women or thinking about divorce.

Sex is deeply important and connective as a practice. It can't be sidelined

Welcome welcome so the communities growing bit by bit and I'm happy to see that.

Today's post is a inspo process for men with bimbo slut wives or partners that wish to traditionalise them and don't know a process to do that. It's also for bimbo slut lurkers to learn to reacquire modesty in light of their devotion to their partner.

You serve your man in every way he wants.

In his private domain you dress as he wants you, your conduct is as he wants you, the way you interact is as he wants you. That means you could be naked at home except for a thin bit of fabric covering your nipples and that wouldn't matter. Because his kingdom and private domain is yours to devoted yourself too and reside.

When it comes to public acts that is where there is a difference.

Traditionally and patriarchally (no true Scotsman but I digress) modest women were lauded and women that showed their beauty their wild unrestrained sexuality were considered uncouth or unbecoming. It's beautiful qualities to have domestically but it's sloppy when shared too much with the outside world.

The man decides what is public and private

In my faith there's a clear delineation but in this subreddit we are big tent on domestic patriarchy to cater to a number of formats. I'm aware some people like to show off their ownership of their wives to their friends. It was never a thing of interest to me, it's internal matters but some people love that feeling of a well trained wife that knows the right level of engagement with respect to her husband's friends in making him feel well tended too as he has them over.

Former bimbo sluts absolutely love having private outlets for their sexuality

It's very hard to go from bimbo slut to modest quickly it requires a step change in thinking. Sometimes they may reach for clothing and ways of talking that reveal their nature a little too easily making them susceptible to be hit on by men around them. By giving them a private space to explore the depth of that it lets them better accept modest restriction in their outward day to say life.

Put more succinctly:

**A woman should be a fortress to her husband castle and a hearth to his home. **

If women are too friendly to any other men (out of politeness etc) they just attract a lot of drama.

The correct demeanour (subjective but identifiable) is to be a slightly off-putting bitch to men to whom you don't belong and a squirmy love filled kitten to the man you do belong too.

Why being a bitch? It just saves drama some people feel the need to see their man fight for them it's tiresome. There's plenty enough real life battles to fight, made up ones to secure attraction need not be some of them.

Also by learning to be a bitch selectively that cultivates the soft traditional female skills needed to protect your man's interests.

When a woman can be sweet to another man?

When her husband very clearly has physical dominion over her. Physical control emotional control and non verbal. Where it's clear you belong to him and are being sweet out of a sense of devotion to your husband's needs.

There's a thing I remember the psychologist Doctor K doing when he noticed at streamer meetups women started to hit on him

He started to pretend to be poorly hiding revulsion to give them the message they shouldn't limit test their sexuality around him as he's devoted to his wife.

There are women out there that will target married men. Rather than respecting their marriage they will see his insistence on remaining loyal as a game they can play to overcome. A woman without a sense of loyalty is a ruined woman.

Selective cultivating of revulsion is a good soft skill women and men can use in certain situations where it's not possible to be direct incase that encourages the suitor.

Men can afford to be more nice to the women that hit on them but if they feel they're going against their own internal values feigning a sense of revulsion that you're poorly hiding is a skill that's effective at shutting down that kind of attention.

Sample situation. For the husband. If you are out and about doing errands and you are hit on by a woman absorb that energy, end the interaction with a feigned sense of revulsion if they go too far.

Then go home to your wife. Take her and tell her why you're taking her. Pull down her clothing folder her legs up and pound her with all that sexual energy you got gifted for free from being desired by another woman. She'll cum from a mix of the jealousy but also from having been chosen by you to come and be taken because it reinforced the relationship. This is using that external energy to reinforce the relationship

Sample situation. For the wife.

If you are out and about doing errands and you are hit on by a man absorb that energy by ending that interaction with a feigned sense of revulsion. They're pathetic if they think they can supercede the man to whom you belong.

You go back home and you tell your husband you belong to them and you fuck and give your essence to them, using the energy you gathered externally to reinforce your relationship. Some men absolutely hate knowing their woman was ever hit on by another guy so play it by ear and have discussions before about how and what you can do in those situations.

They need to know you reinforce your loyalty.

Extra spicy technique ex bimbo sluts can do to make their new patriarchal relationships better

Choose him first. Make a conscious point to choose him above your own needs sometimes. If he's a good man someone that you know will self advocate for you and not let you languish you wouldn't need to self protect as much. I'm not saying give away your entirety of yourself to someone that treats you cruelly but just choose him first more often than maybe you'd naturally do.

Something like say your parents ask you to run an errand. Well in patriarchy you should be good to your parents. But you belong to your husband. So you serve your husband first and inform him of the other duty you must do. Choosing him first let's him know you belong and if he's a good man he will cut you off from serving him shorter than normal and send you off to the other duty.

These are relationships enforcement mechanisms and an inspo to help people on this path.

That's it for this edition. Try and implement these things.