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I don't know how many of you actually thought about it, but I needed to put this on the table.

I don't know how to explain, but for me, putting different fingers in someone's belly button is not the same, in a psychological way. Like, putting pinkie finger and putting middle finger inside is different thing for me, psychologically, if that makes any sense 🤣🤣. I hope you get it.

For me, putting thumb inside is like noticing that person has cute belly button.

Putting index finger inside someone's belly button is like some kind of dominance, when I see someone playing with other person's navel with just index finger, I see some kind of power dynamics, but also it's like admitting that other person has very attractive navel.

Putting middle finger inside someone's belly button is something similar, but with just a little bit less dominance and with a little less attraction.

Putting pinkie finger inside someone's navel is like apreciating that person's belly button but also it's very gentle. Like, seeing attractive but little navel, which you don't want to hurt 😂.

So, which finger do you preffer while playing? And also, if you have different views, drop it in the comments! ⬇️☺️

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When you are coaching someone in the gym, you often need to describe movement of one segment of the body in relation to particular body part. For example "knees paralel with feet" or "chest need to be higher than shoulder" etc. And there are some exercises were I needed to explain with relation to belly button.

It was so hard for me to say word "belly button", like they will suddenly know about my kink 😭🤣. I can't explain, but it was satisfaction and discomfort at the same time 😂.

It's good for adrenaline boost, and it actually gave mi an idea. Maybe I could try SOME KIND of belly button exibitionism with my future partner.

Do you had some situations where you needed to say "belly button", and how you felt?

If someone doesn't know what it is, it's basically watching your partner being tickled by someone else or tickling someone else.

In the recent time, I got this fantasy of watching my gf (which currently I don't have 😆) being tickled by other guy. I have no idea how this fantasy came to my mind and what is psychological cause of this...

So I'm curious, how rare is it actually in tickling community. Also if some of you had tickle cuckolding experience, I would like to hear your story, how you told your partner about it, how he/she reacted, and how you found someone.

I still don't know how should I approach this with my future partner, cause in these fantasies, all 3 people need to be emotionally very intelligent. Also, it's the question how it will be easy to find someone who would tickle someone's girl.

So, drop your thoughts about this, and if you have some other crazy fantasy, I guess that we would like to hear. Also, if anyone has any theory about how someone gets this fantasy, I would like to hear! ☺️

I'm 22 years old male, I'm conventionally attractive, and to be honest I'm pretty much extroverted and talkative. I'm very muscular, have been training in the gym for 5 years and before that I used to traing boxing. Also my face is a little above average.

And I have no idea why I never had intimacy, and it frustrates im in real life so much. However, once there was one post on one subreddit where one guy my age posted that he never had intimacy and gf and how he was so sad and upset about it. And people made fun of him in the comments, but for some reason, I found it very interesting and even wished that people were making fun of me like that.

I don't know is my brain actually trying to use my insecurities and make them into fantasies, but still I wouldn't like to be made fun of by people I already know.

And it would be so hot and funny to be verbally teased and mocked by some less attractive or less masculine or skinnier or nerdy guy who has more experience than me. Bonus points if that person is younger. And like, being verbally teased by woman is also very hot.

I'm actually scared that this will evolve into cuckold when I find gf, but I just want to try this.

I thought about some games you can play with your partner/fwb, and actually came up with some:

1. Tickling "competition"

- You need to have timer to play this game, and basically both of you will take turns tickling each other. You can tickle just belly button but also whole belly. Person who is tickled can not physically stop the other person, and there need to be some signal (word, or maybe tapping) when person who is tickled can't take it anymore, and the winner is whoever lasts longer while being tickled. If the person who is being tickled physically blocks his/her partner, round is immediately over and it is considered as tap out/safword.

2. Blindfolded belly button poke

- One person is blindfilded (or the other person need to be clothed with his/her belly covered, but honestly first version is more sexy to me). And now he/she need to poke/put finger inside other person's belly button. Winner is whoever puts finger inside more times for as many rounds as you want to have. But also, you can measure distance from belly button and the winner is whoever have smaller distance.

3. Belly button "fight"

- This is most interesting for me. Both persons need to be free to move. There can be various rules, you could form your version, but basically, the winner is the person which inserts his/her finger in other person's belly button more times for x period of time. You can play for as long as you want, also you can allow/disallow pushing, tickling, wrestling, covering belly button so your partner couldn't touch it. Literally you can create your own version.

These 3 are very appealing to me, also maybe I have some more ideas, but I haven't "studied" them enough 🤣. If you have anything to add, I will like to hear, it will be interesting to hear your games/rules/ideas! ⬇️

I don't know how to start this, but I guess that everyone of us likes to "predict" how other people's belly buttons look like before seeing them.

However, sometimes I'm just very very curious how some specific person's belly button looks like (of course that I see them as a persons with feelings, don't get me wrong). And these aren't always the best looking women. For example, I have one female friend who actually knows about my kink, she looks okay, but nothing special for my taste, but I always had feeling that her belly button is 10/10. And tbh I'm pretty solid in guessing how people's belly buttons look like. I think that she has deep round a little bigger innie, which is absolutely my type.

She isn't the only person whose navel I would love to see, but I just want to fucus on that psychological aspect, like why I need to see some person's belly button more than someone else's, although that other person is more attractive and maybe even more interesting as a person??

There were some situations were I haven't expected that someone has sexy navel, and when I actually saw that girl's navel, I was like DAMN, I HAVEN'T EXPECTED IT.