u/Loose-Dependent-1621

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So I’ve been in an open relationship with my boyfriend of one year and he just asked me if he could fly to London England to fuck a guy he met on Grindr at home. I’m so turned on by the idea of getting cucked by a guy from another country. Any suggestions as to how I can be more of a cuck for them, like pay for their room service?

I’m starting to think I may be a bottom cuck/stag. The thought of my bf cheating on me used to really scare me, and I’ve suspected he might be cheating and I think that obsession has made me become really turned on by it. When I have approached the conversation he says he’s not interested in fucking other guys.
For context: we are in a long distance relationship. And I understand if he wants to act on any urges.

How do I know if I’m actually a cuck/stag? What are the benefits for being a bottom cuck, or even the top hot husband and how has it affected your relationship?

I’m still trying to figure out if this is the dynamic that I really want, any advice or insight is appreciated

When was the moment it all clicked? when did you have that self realization that you are a cuck? That there was no turning back?

For me it was when I met my husband’s boyfriend. Sitting across from the two of them and watching them flirt and be physical with each other at dinner was intoxicating. Getting to know and connect with him is still something I really enjoy doing. Seeing the way they looked at each other and how my involvement changed when we went to a concert after, I knew that we were forever going to be changed. That cuckolding had evolved past a fetish for us and turned into our relationship dynamic.

On the way back home I started to nod off , being in the backseat I couldn’t hear much anyways. My husband softly checking from the rear view mirror, ”babe are you asleep?” I stayed quiet and kept my eyes closed. He asked one last time. My husband called him naughty for grinding up against him like that in front of me. His boyfriend laughed lightly saying that he thought I was enjoying the show. I sat silently rock hard and throbbing listening to them go over what was ahead in their night, how it was meeting with me the first time, and the noises of them jerking and sucking each other off, thinking I was fast asleep.

This was something I used to fantasize about. My dad's no longer here, of course. But I find it hot when I read stories of dads and sons getting nasty with each other. How many of you have actually done it and how did it feel?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now and most of that time we were pretty open. He’s a pilot and I suppose that a big part of what he enjoys about the job is getting to sleep with someone new often. He toned it down when we started dating but I could tell he missed it and to be honest the idea turned me on so much. I told him I don’t mind if he continues sleeping with other people and that I’d actually find it quite hot. I think he was really happy to hear that because next time he was really eager to tell me about it when he came back.
We have also played with people together in many instances but only hearing about it still makes me so hard. I usually don’t know about it until he comes back when he shows me pics or sometimes videos they took together. I always end up jerking off listening to him or he tells me about them while he fucks me. It’s seriously so hot to me. I know a lot of people want to know what their partner is doing but to me the uncertainty makes it so much hotter. I often, when he’s gone, get turned on just thinking whether he might be fucking someone else right now. Let me know if there are others who enjoy it this way just as much😉

What are your opinions on hidden cameras in the bedroom where your hubby/boyfriend fucks his boy toy (all consensual, of course)?

This way you get to watch (possibly even film) without being in the way.

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I'm 53 years old with a fat unremarkable ass. The guys he can easily find have perky, round bubble butts and they're nice and tight. My husband is 36 and still has plenty of sexual stamina left in him. Seeing this photo, can you honestly blame him for straying? Since the first time he cheated with a twink, I've come to accept and embrace that he wants to fuck other guys. Guys younger and better looking, and who he can do things with that he can't or won't do with me. Meanwhile, I remain monogamous.

I was discussing with a friend the concept of compersion in the cuck relationship. I explained that my husband does things with other guys that he refuses to do with me, namely fucking missionary and having me suck him off without having his phone in his face (he only lets me give him head if he's watching porn). These are experiences I do not get to have with my husband but others do. That hurts, but it also makes me feel very aroused and submissive: He's boss and he fucks guys as he pleases and I have nothing to say about it.

Still, I can't help but feel nothing but joy and happiness for those who do get to experience being fucked face to face by my husband. I love that other guys get to suck him off without him needing his phone or any porn as they do so. I'm genuinely happy that they can experience what I'm denied. I rarely feel any compersion directly for my husband though.

Compersion is usually talked about in terms of being happy that your partner is experiencing happiness in the cuck/ENM relationship. How many of you feel compersion, not necessarily for your partner, but for your bull or your partner's partner? Is this normal?

We had been talking about sleepovers for some time, both agreeing that it might not be the best idea because you can't trust guys on Grindr or Sniffies in your home when you're sleeping. One of us would have to be up all night.

But this guy was someone he's played with many times before. We decided we could trust him. So my husband went on a date with him. They went to see the Michael Jackson biopic, had a small bite to eat, and then came back to our place.

It was agreed that they would make out and fuck in front of me before I went to sleep on the couch. That way I would get the usual pleasure of watching my husband fuck his bottom boy. But after that it was agreed that they would enjoy one on one private time in our bed until morning. This was new. We had never done this, so I wasn't sure how I'd feel about it. But I was excited.

For the first time, I wasn't privy to what went on between my husband and another man when the door closed. But I heard lots of things behind that door.

First I heard them conversing and laughing together, sometimes pretty loud. There would be pauses of silence (which I assume was making out). But then the conversation and laughter would continue. I heard the music from my husband's video games. More laughter and conversation.

Meanwhile, I'm out in the living room completely and totally aroused. I've been relegated to roommate status by a man I've been married to for five years.

I began to hear moans, whimpers, and the undeniable sound of the bed squeaking back and forth, up and down. I couldn't help but jerk off. I worked through my post-nut clarity (and there was a lot of it).

Then there was silence. I could start to smell my husband's cigarette smoke from behind the door. Clearly the sex was amazing. But it was very quiet at that point. Occasionally, I'd hear the bed squeak again, but not as intense as before. The moaning continued infrequently as well. This was the part that really had me aroused, because I had no idea whatsoever what was going on. All I had was my imagination. Was my husband just letting loose on him in a way he never let me see? Did they stop for breaks in between fucks? Did they just have an amazing fuck and just collapse from exhaustion? I don't know. It was unsettling. But it was one of the most arousing things I've ever experienced.

Later on, the conversation seemed to resume, as well as the game. They did try to hold it down because they assumed I'd be sleeping. But at times, they were actually very loud.

At one point, my husband came out of the bedroom with a towel wrapped around him, so that he could use the bathroom. Very odd, because his husband, who'd seen him naked for 7 years, was right there in front of him. But tonight I guess I was just a roommate.

He went and took a piss, went back to the bedroom without saying a word to me. My arousal began to build once again.

The room went quiet after a while and all of us eventually fell asleep.

But when I got up the following morning, I realized my glasses were in the bedroom. I quietly made my way in there so I didn't disturb them and found my husband spooning his bottom boy as they both slept.

What a truly amazing night. Only a cuck gets it.

Edit: Some have asked me what my husband said happened that night. The truth is he didn't say much, which was disappointing. I was hoping for a very clear detailed account of what happened after I left the room. But all my husband told me was they played some games, made some small talk, and he fucked him 3 times. But he gave almost no detail beyond that. In any case, my ears heard a lot of fun behind that door, so I guess I'll just go with that.