u/LoyalSB

Stop spamming modmail. Verifications are being backed up by weeks, simply because we have to go through 10 different modmail threads from the same person asking questions that are answered in the rules.

Read the rules! Part 1 and Part 2 of verification are not optional its required. You cannot submit video verification and not age verification, same thing with age verification, you cannot submit age verification without video verification.

commonly asked questions:

How do I verify?

Read the rules!

where do I submit verification?

in modmail only! private DMs will go unanswered, you can use Imgur, Redgifs, Google Drive etc. to send the link to video verification.

I submitted verification and got no response, why?

Double check your verification, if it’s wrong, we skipped you to get to those who correctly submitted verification, if we replied to everyone who submitted verification wrong we’d never get through modmail.

I don’t have onlyfans, loyalfans, manyvids or any adult platform, can I send ID?

No! We do not accept physical ID as age verification, verification must be through an adult platform that age verifies you and we must be able to see you’re age verified through said site, you may be asked to add a emoji or phrase to the bio to confirm the account is yours.

Why is verification taking long and how long do I have to wait?

It honestly depends on the day/week, if modmail is filled with incomplete verification, scam reports, complaints or just straight up spam, then it can take between 1-2 weeks, but if people are submitting verification correctly and everyone is being nice then 1-2 days sometimes less. So there is no real answer, just know we will get to you ASAP!

I appreciate those who have been patient, understanding and kind, it really means a lot! Thank you.

First and foremost, ANYONE selling content or offering any online services, should ALWAYS collect their payment first!! I don’t care what the story is “My dog is sick”, “I’m at work”, “I’m helping my elderly parents”… I DO NOT CARE! If they are not paying first then they can come back when ready or go watch porn. What we offer is a luxury, if they cannot afford it or have issues with upfront payment then you need to move on, you will be scammed otherwise. Vet your buyers, I see too many of you posting time wasters and their account is barely a week old, their comment history is filled with “Dm me” and you’re upset because they’re not serious? They were never serious, only trying to see who would be desperate enough to jump and send nudes before payment is received. This is not a get rich quick scheme, if you’re here trying to just make money by any means then this is not for you, simply because you will meet more scammers and time wasters than buyers and it’s just pointless. The most important thing is that you protect yourself and vet your buyers properly before engaging.

Buyers, please stop rushing to pay the first girl that throws out a too good to be true offer and STOP accepting picture verifications!! AI is a real thing, it’s getting better, scammers are using AI to create picture verifications. Ask for a video verification saying their username and the date, maybe even a random hand gesture of your choosing. Please note, requesting verification and not paying or stating that you’re going to pay and not following through is considered time wasting, if you’re posted here, it will not be removed. Before engaging with a seller, check her profile, if her page is blank or low effort then skip, imagine the service you’ll receive if she doesn’t put the effort into her promotion? I can’t imagine it’d be great, also search the username, filter the results to “new” and see if the person has been posted before, check the comments on their post, see if they’ve been called out, if they’re not verified anywhere or in any subs, I’d highly suggest you avoid them just because there’s too many scams, avoid new accounts, typically if a seller creates a new account due to being banned they will re-establish themselves quickly and verify in as many subs as possible. Additionally you can google search the images on their profile, see if it comes up, so many scammers have been caught this way.

Over all, there are many ways to protect yourselves on reddit, yes things can still happen just like almost anything else in life no matter how safe we try to be but there are so many things that we can do to make sure we’re staying as safe as possible, let’s work together and stop giving in to the pockets of scammers or filling their camera rolls with free nudes they can just get from anywhere else. This is about connection, creating a real experience that doesn’t feel 100% transactional, we want to connect with each other and that’s something porn can’t provide.

If you have any other suggestions or questions please feel free to leave a comment or message modmail. Thank you!