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Let me say this simply.

This body is not “perfect”.

It’s not trying to be.

It has changed. It will keep changing.

That’s not a flaw. That’s just time doing its job.

What’s always interesting to me is… how much thought people quietly carry about their own bodies, while pretending they don’t.

Men included.

Full confidence in life…

but when it comes to your family jewel, suddenly it’s a full internal discussion.

“Is it enough?”

“Is it normal?”

You’ve had it your whole life…

and still second-guessing it 😄

Here’s the thing no one says properly —

if you’ve been given something, it works.

Different shapes, different sizes… same job.

Like hands — some bigger, some smaller,

but all fingers still do what they’re supposed to do.

Same logic.

Not everything is supposed to look like something you can take a perfect mirror picture of and get validation from.

Function ≠ aesthetics.

And honestly… once you understand that, everything becomes simpler.

Whatever size it is — it’s not about that.

It’s about how confidently you carry it, how well you understand it, how you use it.

Because if you’re comfortable with it, you’ll learn it.

And if you learn it, you’ll know how to make it work.

That’s what actually matters.

And women… not very different either.

One good day — everything feels fine.

One random comment — suddenly everything is under question.

Saggy, tight, stretch marks, lines…

as if the body is supposed to stay untouched, unblemished, perfectly shaped forever.

It doesn’t.

If you’re expecting bodies to look airbrushed, flawless, “perfect” all the time…

that’s a very different standard — the kind you see in “corn” 😄

This space exists because real bodies don’t follow that script.

Also yes… I get called things.

“Aye BUDDI…”

“Why are you here?”

“Go home…”

I read it… and move on.

Because this isn’t personal.

This is just… time.

Give it a few years — everyone reaches here.

So instead of fighting it, or overthinking it,

or trying to match some template…

just understand what you have,

use it well,

carry it well.

That alone changes everything.

Because at the end of the day, nothing about the body is the real issue.

It’s the comfort.

The confidence.

The ease with it.

That’s what actually shows.

That’s what actually feels good.

And that’s what “aging gracefully” really is.

Not hiding.

Not fixing.

Not proving.

Just owning.

👁️ 🌊 you

There’s something I keep noticing here… and it’s hard to ignore once you see it.

“Looking for a third” — probably one of the most common things on here.

And let’s be honest about what that usually means.

A third woman.

A bi girl.

A “unicorn”.

Someone who’s expected to come in, vibe with both, participate with both…

and somehow make the whole thing better.

That fantasy is very clear. Very confidently imagined.

But flip the exact same situation.

Say — okay, what about another guy?

Suddenly the tone changes completely.

Now it’s “bull”, “cuck”,

“he’ll watch”,

“I’ll take over”,

or assumptions that the guy in the relationship can’t satisfy his partner.

Why?

Why does it immediately become about humiliation or replacement?

Why can’t it just be the same thing —

a third person, participating, adding to the experience?

Because interestingly… when it’s two women, it’s seen as pleasure.

When it’s two men, it’s seen as a threat.

And that says a lot.

Even now, I still get messages like

“me and my girl want you”

“join us”

— even after I’ve clearly said we’re a couple.

And when we flip it and say okay… what if it’s another man?

Immediate no.

“We’re only looking for a bi female.”

Always.

So it makes me wonder…

Is this really about being open?

Or just being selectively comfortable?

No judgement. Just curiosity.

Because the setup doesn’t change.

Only the direction does.

And somehow… that changes everything 😌

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