u/Monocle_Toad

Here’s the truth

I’m 36 years old and in a relationship but not married. My gf (34) and I haven’t had sex in months. It’s to the point now I think we both feel weird initiating sex. We barely even kiss anymore except the usual peck goodbye when I leave for work. We’ve both said we want to have sex but there’s always an excuse one of us gives and we just don’t.

I’m starting by to lose my mind. I don’t even need anything done to me, I miss eating pussy. I miss my face being ridden until I taste a woman’s cum drip onto my mouth. I want to worship a woman’s feet like she’s a goddess and I’m lucky she’s allowing me to pleasure her. Yeah I miss getting my dick wet but I’m a pleaser first.

Is there a woman out there who wishes the same thing? Is there someone out there who wants a discrete relationship?

Maybe. If there is. Where she?

UPDATE: Someone messaged me with great questions that I think would benefit here.

So, no, we haven’t been with other couples, but yes we have slept with other people as when we have been in an open relationship for the majority of being together. We are from Montana and moved here a few years ago for my job. Since the move we stopped the open relationship and it really never came back up. It just stopped lol. When we realized we’ve hit a dry point, we discussed returning to an open relationship in hopes it might give us some kind of spark back. We’ve considered sleeping with other couples because we’ve met a lot of swingers here and it made us curious. What her and I do with other people we usually keep private, hence being discrete, but yes, I have watched her get fucked before and I’m open to it again. No she hasn’t seen me with a girl and tbh she hasn’t really said if she would be down for that or not yet. We don’t usually host unless the “hookup” becomes a regular friend with benefits, but we don’t mind traveling as long as we can establish location first, usually somewhere public. Yes we smoke and yes I will meet up with you just to smoke so we can get acquainted first. Great questions and I hope it helps you all understand where we’re coming from a bit more.

Also gentleman, this is meant for me to find a girl and not find a guy for her lol she doesn’t need my help with that and is doing that on her own

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u/Monocle_Toad — 2 days ago