u/Myownperson007

I have been sexually active for almost 10 years. Married my high school sweetheart who is the only man I’ve had sex with. I’ve always wondered (lately more than before) if I’m missing out.

Our relationship is not the best and most of the time I think we are together because of the kids. Our sex life is almost nonexistent. He has a high libido and I used to as well but the last few years I’ve lost interest in sex. At some point I thought I was asexual until I started watching porn, sexting and reading spicy stories here. Now I masturbate at least once a day thinking about another dick in me and I think is getting out of hand.

I’m horny now and I’m trying to cool off because I want to stop the habit but it’s getting hard not to. 🥲

I (30F) posted about two weeks ago about how I’d never had an orgasm. Some people here advised me to have some alone time and to communicate with my husband.
I did talk to him, he works out of town but we’ve been having sex every day when he comes home.

Normally, I can go weeks if not months without having sex or solo time. Well, that changed after that post 😅.

I’ve been horny every single day since, sex with husband was improved, I did have an orgasm (multiple actually) and I cannot stop playing with myself every night when he’s not home. I even bought some new toys. I know I need to get to know my body better so I can have better orgasms but I think this is a good start.

If you have any advice/tips, please leave a comment or send me a chat.

I am also sexting here and that helps with my solo time.

Hi, I’ve been debating whether or not to post this because I have very mixed feelings right now. I’ve only been with one person for the 10 years I have been sexually, we have kids together. Well, I have never had an orgasm. I’ve been close but never finish.

My sexual drive has decreased significantly in the last five years since I had our youngest. Idk, I’m not blind, I see posts and stuff from other man online and I find them attractive, but never enough to actually get turned on.

The difference between now and before my baby is that I felt an emotional connection to my partner but not anymore. I’ve tried to explain this but he will not listen. He just wants to go straight into sex but I can’t, I barely get aroused anymore unless is from reading a book or the posts here. Not even with corn. Any advice? I’ve thought that maybe I am becoming asexual if that’s possible, but not sure.