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40 [M4F] - Toronto - Time off this week to vet candidates.

Background:

Repost until I find the perfect cumdump -
I've got a couple days off work that I can use to vet good candidates. Kickboxing hand injury means I've got to take a break - today and tomorrow are narrow windows where I can dedicate more time to patiently vet candidates. Free for vanilla meetup to vet vibes, if things go well we could have a playdate.

My office is in a huge complex of multiple towers that reside directly on top of a subway station. You get off the subway and text me that you're here and ready. I tell you that my meeting is about to wrap. I exit the elevator banks, find you waiting at one of the booths in the lobby and smile at you.

We walk to the quiet public washroom in the building. I see that you've followed my instructions and worn a skirt for easy access. I tell you that I'm very pleased you're already wet. I turn you around - put your hands up against the wall, unzip my pants - and slide my cock in.

The first couples strokes slow until I get balls deep. Progressively it turns into pounding rougher and rougher pulling on your hair for leverage. I do not pull out - I finish inside you throbbing and filling you with my hot cum. I slide back out and look at my work - pleased with filling you. I zip my slacks back up and head back up to my next meeting.

My vanilla life is perfect - there is basically nothing left to do on that side. I am chasing ever more exquisite AND edge-case experiences.

Heading into my middle-age years - I am on a quest to never waste a load again outside the context of a slut's servitude (swallow / creampie). I can cum 2-3 times a day still - but need to cum a minimum of 2-3 a week to prevent significant intrusive thoughts from disrupting my day-to-day.

I am looking for someone who wants to meet up and be used as my bespoke cum dumpster for atleast 2 loads a week - ideally three. You will need to be on birth control - ideally you have a cum fetish.

About me:

  • Around 40 years old 6ft1 - 230 lbs - dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week
  • Successful extrovert - people driven both in my vanilla and kink life. People describe me as intense and playful both at work and outside.
  • I study people for a living - I get paid to build profiles to ensure that we can build/sell them what they need. While this is not a primary objective of our thing - it is an occupational hazard that I will want to know what drives you.
  • I lead and develop people - that is a work kink of mine. I love the sense of satisfaction that comes from seeing someone I develop execute on something great.
  • Central/East Asian mutt - born and raised in Toronto.
  • Quiet/calm dominant - I don't think true dominance depends on being loud.
  • I'm possessive and territorial - I take care of my toys/things.
  • Very open to other role-based kinks - that help spice things up - DDlg, pet play, bimbofication, hucow, + more.

You (for this to work):

  • You have sympathetic arousal - you are turned on by your partner being turned on
  • You love the validation that personally milking my cum will bring you - that you earned this load - that I have demonstrated that I cherish you WITH my load.
  • You are looking for direction and structure in your life - you might be looking to build a skillset or develop more as a person.
  • You are available to meet my needs as outlined above - the point is that I won't be spilling my seed elsewhere.
  • You are local to GTA - not looking for something that is online only (for obvious reasons)
  • You want to belong to someone.

I will only be considering replies to messages that breakdown the following - your age, your ethnicity, your location (neighbourhood is fine). This needs to be paired with a photo - I am happy to reciprocate if you are the right fit.

Looking forward to seeing how many loads I can stuff you with over the next year.

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 1 day ago

40 [M4F] - Toronto - you take my load within minutes of getting off the subway.

Background:

Repost until I find the perfect cumdump - my office is in a huge complex of multiple towers that reside directly on top of a subway station. You get off the subway and text me that you're here and ready. I tell you that my meeting is about to wrap. I exit the elevator banks, find you waiting at one of the booths in the lobby and smile at you.

We walk to the quiet public washroom in the building. I see that you've followed my instructions and worn a skirt for easy access. I tell you that I'm very pleased you're already wet. I turn you around - put your hands up against the wall, unzip my pants - and slide my cock in.

The first couples strokes slow until I get balls deep. Progressively it turns into pounding rougher and rougher pulling on your hair for leverage. I do not pull out - I finish inside you throbbing and filling you with my hot cum. I slide back out and look at my work - pleased with filling you. I zip my slacks back up and head back up to my next meeting.

My vanilla life is perfect - there is basically nothing left to do on that side. I am chasing ever more exquisite AND edge-case experiences.

Heading into my middle-age years - I am on a quest to never waste a load again outside the context of a slut's servitude (swallow / creampie). I can cum 2-3 times a day still - but need to cum a minimum of 2-3 a week to prevent significant intrusive thoughts from disrupting my day-to-day.

I am looking for someone who wants to meet up and be used as my bespoke cum dumpster for atleast 2 loads a week - ideally three. You will need to be on birth control - ideally you have a cum fetish.

About me:

  • Around 40 years old 6ft1 - 230 lbs - dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week
  • Successful extrovert - people driven both in my vanilla and kink life. People describe me as intense and playful both at work and outside.
  • I study people for a living - I get paid to build profiles to ensure that we can build/sell them what they need. While this is not a primary objective of our thing - it is an occupational hazard that I will want to know what drives you.
  • I lead and develop people - that is a work kink of mine. I love the sense of satisfaction that comes from seeing someone I develop execute on something great.
  • Central/East Asian mutt - born and raised in Toronto.
  • Quiet/calm dominant - I don't think true dominance depends on being loud.
  • I'm possessive and territorial - I take care of my toys/things.
  • Very open to other role-based kinks - that help spice things up - DDlg, pet play, bimbofication, hucow, + more.

You (for this to work):

  • You have sympathetic arousal - you are turned on by your partner being turned on
  • You love the validation that personally milking my cum will bring you - that you earned this load - that I have demonstrated that I cherish you WITH my load.
  • You are looking for direction and structure in your life - you might be looking to build a skillset or develop more as a person.
  • You are available to meet my needs as outlined above - the point is that I won't be spilling my seed elsewhere.
  • You are local to GTA - not looking for something that is online only (for obvious reasons)
  • You want to belong to someone.

I will only be considering replies to messages that breakdown the following - your age, your ethnicity, your location (neighbourhood is fine). This needs to be paired with a photo - I am happy to reciprocate if you are the right fit.

Looking forward to seeing how many loads I can stuff you with over the next year.

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 9 days ago

40 [M4F] - You will take 150 loads over the next calendar year.

Background:

My vanilla life is perfect - there is basically nothing left to do on that side. I am chasing ever more exquisite AND edge-case experiences.

Heading into my middle-age years - I am on a quest to never waste a load again outside the context of a slut's servitude (swallow / creampie). I can cum 2-3 times a day still - but need to cum a minimum of 2-3 a week to prevent significant intrusive thoughts from disrupting my day-to-day.

I am looking for someone who wants to meet up and be used as my bespoke cum dumpster for atleast 2 loads a week - ideally three. You will need to be on birth control - ideally you have a cum fetish.

About me:

  • Around 40 years old 6ft1 - 230 lbs - dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week
  • Successful extrovert - people driven both in my vanilla and kink life. People describe me as intense and playful both at work and outside.
  • I study people for a living - I get paid to build profiles to ensure that we can build/sell them what they need. While this is not a primary objective of our thing - it is an occupational hazard that I will want to know what drives you.
  • I lead and develop people - that is a work kink of mine. I love the sense of satisfaction that comes from seeing someone I develop execute on something great.
  • Central/East Asian mutt - born and raised in Toronto.
  • Quiet/calm dominant - I don't think true dominance depends on being loud.
  • I'm possessive and territorial - I take care of my toys/things.
  • Very open to other role-based kinks - that help spice things up - DDlg, pet play, bimbofication, hucow, + more.

You (for this to work):

  • You have sympathetic arousal - you are turned on by your partner being turned on
  • You love the validation that personally milking my cum will bring you - that you earned this load - that I have demonstrated that I cherish you WITH my load.
  • You are looking for direction and structure in your life - you might be looking to build a skillset or develop more as a person.
  • You are available to meet my needs as outlined above - the point is that I won't be spilling my seed elsewhere.
  • You are local to GTA - not looking for something that is online only (for obvious reasons)
  • You want to belong to someone.

I will only be considering replies to messages that breakdown the following - your age, your ethnicity, your location (neighbourhood is fine). This needs to be paired with a photo - I am happy to reciprocate if you are the right fit.

Looking forward to bestowing you with my seed.

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 30 days ago

40 [M4F] Toronto - Looking for something specific

Background:

My vanilla life is perfect - there is basically nothing left to do on that side. I am chasing ever more exquisite AND edge-case experiences.

Heading into my middle-age years - I am on a quest to never waste a load again outside the context of a slut's servitude (swallow / creampie). I can cum 2-3 times a day still - but need to cum a minimum of 2-3 a week to prevent significant intrusive thoughts from disrupting my day-to-day.

I am looking for someone who wants to meet up and be used as my bespoke cum dumpster for atleast 2 loads a week - ideally three. You will need to be on birth control - ideally you have a cum fetish.

About me:

  • Around 40 years old 6ft1 - 230 lbs - dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week
  • Successful extrovert - people driven both in my vanilla and kink life. People describe me as intense and playful both at work and outside.
  • I study people for a living - I get paid to build profiles to ensure that we can build/sell them what they need. While this is not a primary objective of our thing - it is an occupational hazard that I will want to know what drives you.
  • I lead and develop people - that is a work kink of mine. I love the sense of satisfaction that comes from seeing someone I develop execute on something great.
  • Central/East Asian mutt - born and raised in Toronto.
  • Quiet/calm dominant - I don't think true dominance depends on being loud.
  • I'm possessive and territorial - I take care of my toys/things.
  • Very open to other role-based kinks - that help spice things up - DDlg, pet play, bimbofication, hucow, + more.

You (for this to work):

  • You have sympathetic arousal - you are turned on by your partner being turned on
  • You love the validation that personally milking my cum will bring you - that you earned this load - that I have demonstrated that I cherish you WITH my load.
  • You are looking for direction and structure in your life - you might be looking to build a skillset or develop more as a person.
  • You are available to meet my needs as outlined above - the point is that I won't be spilling my seed elsewhere.
  • You are local to GTA - not looking for something that is online only (for obvious reasons)
  • You want to belong to someone.

I will only be considering replies to messages that breakdown the following - your age, your ethnicity, your location (neighbourhood is fine). This needs to be paired with a photo - I am happy to reciprocate if you are the right fit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 1 month ago

40 [M4F] #Toronto - Looking for something specific

Background:

My vanilla life is perfect - there is basically nothing left to do on that side. I am chasing ever more exquisite AND edge-case experiences.

Heading into my middle-age years - I am on a quest to never waste a load again outside the context of a slut's servitude (swallow / creampie). I can cum 2-3 times a day still - but need to cum a minimum of 2-3 a week to prevent significant intrusive thoughts from disrupting my day-to-day.

I am looking for someone who wants to meet up and be used as my bespoke cum dumpster for atleast 2 loads a week - ideally three. You will need to be on birth control - ideally you have a cum fetish.

About me:

  • Around 40 years old 6ft1 - 230 lbs - dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week
  • Successful extrovert - people driven both in my vanilla and kink life. People describe me as intense and playful both at work and outside.
  • I study people for a living - I get paid to build profiles to ensure that we can build/sell them what they need. While this is not a primary objective of our thing - it is an occupational hazard that I will want to know what drives you.
  • I lead and develop people - that is a work kink of mine. I love the sense of satisfaction that comes from seeing someone I develop execute on something great.
  • Central/East Asian mutt - born and raised in Toronto.
  • Quiet/calm dominant - I don't think true dominance depends on being loud.
  • I'm possessive and territorial - I take care of my toys/things.
  • Very open to other role-based kinks - that help spice things up - DDlg, pet play, bimbofication, hucow, + more.

You (for this to work):

  • You have sympathetic arousal - you are turned on by your partner being turned on
  • You love the validation that personally milking my cum will bring you - that you earned this load - that I have demonstrated that I cherish you WITH my load.
  • You are looking for direction and structure in your life - you might be looking to build a skillset or develop more as a person.
  • You are available to meet my needs as outlined above - the point is that I won't be spilling my seed elsewhere.
  • You are local to GTA - not looking for something that is online only (for obvious reasons)
  • You want to belong to someone.

I will only be considering replies to messages that breakdown the following - your age, your ethnicity, your location (neighbourhood is fine). This needs to be paired with a photo - I am happy to reciprocate if you are the right fit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 1 month ago

40 [M4F] - Toronto - looking for something very specific (you have a cum fetish)

Background:

My vanilla life is perfect - there is basically nothing left to do on that side. I am chasing ever more exquisite AND edge-case experiences.

Heading into my middle-age years - I am on a quest to never waste a load again outside the context of a slut's servitude (swallow / creampie). I can cum 2-3 times a day still - but need to cum a minimum of 2-3 a week to prevent significant intrusive thoughts from disrupting my day-to-day.

I am looking for someone who wants to meet up and be used as my bespoke cum dumpster for atleast 2 loads a week - ideally three. You will need to be on birth control - ideally you have a cum fetish.

About me:

  • Around 40 years old 6ft1 - 230 lbs - dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week
  • Successful extrovert - people driven both in my vanilla and kink life. People describe me as intense and playful both at work and outside.
  • I study people for a living - I get paid to build profiles to ensure that we can build/sell them what they need. While this is not a primary objective of our thing - it is an occupational hazard that I will want to know what drives you.
  • I lead and develop people - that is a work kink of mine. I love the sense of satisfaction that comes from seeing someone I develop execute on something great.
  • Central/East Asian mutt - born and raised in Toronto.
  • Quiet/calm dominant - I don't think true dominance depends on being loud.
  • I'm possessive and territorial - I take care of my toys/things.
  • Very open to other role-based kinks - that help spice things up - DDlg, pet play, bimbofication, hucow, + more.

You (for this to work):

  • You have sympathetic arousal - you are turned on by your partner being turned on
  • You love the validation that personally milking my cum will bring you - that you earned this load - that I have demonstrated that I cherish you WITH my load.
  • You are looking for direction and structure in your life - you might be looking to build a skillset or develop more as a person.
  • You are available to meet my needs as outlined above - the point is that I won't be spilling my seed elsewhere.
  • You are local to GTA - not looking for something that is online only (for obvious reasons)
  • You want to belong to someone.

I will only be considering replies to messages that breakdown the following - your age, your ethnicity, your location (neighbourhood is fine). This needs to be paired with a photo - I am happy to reciprocate if you are the right fit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 1 month ago

40 [M4F] - calm quiet CNC scenes

Example scene:

We meet up for coffee after the initial online vibe check. Ive decided that you move on to an in person evaluation. To see if you are truly fit to be my toy.

When you arrive you see my eyes intently judging your assets. Looking to see if how well you have followed my instructions about wardrobe. How you carry yourself, what your posture is like when we make eye contact. I see you flinch a bit self consciously.

It is delicious.

We have a quick vanilla chat to talk about consent (R/Y/G) and to see if we're still aligned to pick up where we left off in the chat.

About me:

40ish years old, 6ft1, 230 lbs - dadbod thats at a kickboxing gym 4 to 5 times a week

East/Central Asian mutt. Full head of salt n pepper hair either with product and shiny or under a ball cap.

90s/00s hiphop and RnB fan. Born and raised in TO.

Well put together professional.

Possessive and territorial.

Impatient - my time/attention is dear. Don't waste it.

I see you as a bespoke toy just for me.

About you:

Younger and smaller than me.

Know your place as a pleasure animal / toy / object for my pleasure.

Painslut. You love having your nipples and tits pulled on and slapped. You love getting spanked. These are your rewards for making me happy.

Looking for instruction and eager to please. You are turned on by my pleasure.

You are looking for this to occur primarily in person. I am open to ongoing if you're fun.

You want to belong and be owned.

I will only be replying to intros that include some information about you (age, stats, location) and a photo.

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 2 months ago

40 [M4F] - #Toronto - LF work-week fuck doll.

Next week is going to be quiet at work - looking for a daytime cock sleeve to play with to fill the time.

Could turn into something ongoing if you act right.

Me:

40-ish years old

East/Central asian mutt
Full head of salt n pepper hair
6ft1 - 230 lbs - think dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week.
Successful Extrovert

Posessive and territorial

You:

Younger and smaller than me

Are eager and enthusiastic

Painslut who likes: spanked, degraded, tits/face slapped, nipples twisted, orgasm denial, orgasm control. objectification, humiliation, hucow

Local to Toronto and looking to meet up.

I will only responding to messages that have a picture and a description (age, location, stats).

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 2 months ago

40 [M4F] - #Toronto - Pent up from a business trip

Spent the week in New York City on a business trip - pent up and looking for the most delicious cocksleeve.

Could turn into something ongoing if you act right.

Me:

40-ish years old

East/Central asian mutt
Full head of salt n pepper hair
6ft1 - 230 lbs - think dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week.
Successful Extrovert

Posessive and territorial

You:

Younger and smaller than me

Are eager and enthusiastic

Painslut who likes: spanked, degraded, tits/face slapped, nipples twisted, orgasm denial, orgasm control. objectification, humiliation, hucow

Local to Toronto and looking to meet up.

I will only responding to messages that have a picture and a description (age, location, stats).

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 2 months ago

40 [M4F] - Toronto - fighting with wife all weekend - in a bad mood - looking to take it out on a worthless sub

Spent the weekend fighting with my wife, just put the kid to bed. In a bad mood - Looking for a toy to take it out on tonight. Could turn into something ongoing if you act right.

Me:

40-ish years old

East/Central asian mutt
Full head of salt n pepper hair
6ft1 - 230 lbs - think dad bod that's at a kickboxing gym 4-5 times a week.
Successful Extrovert

Posessive and territorial

You:

Younger and smaller than me

Are eager and enthusiastic

Painslut who likes: spanked, degraded, tits/face slapped, nipples twisted, orgasm denial, orgasm control. objectification, humiliation, hucow
Looking for daddy who might be a bad mood tonight.

Local to Toronto and looking to meet up.

I will only responding to messages that have a picture and a description (age, location, stats).

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u/No-Bullfrog-2138 — 3 months ago