Kitchener Married Couple (39) Seeking Bisexual Male (30–55) for Ongoing FWB Connection
We’re a married MF couple in our late 30s looking for one bisexual man to build a long-term, ongoing FWB connection based on genuine chemistry, trust, mutual attraction and friendship.
We’ve tried this before and have learned that we’re looking for something fairly specific. We’re not interested in collecting partners, one-night stands or constantly meeting new people. We’d much rather find one great fit who becomes a regular part of our lives. Someone we genuinely enjoy both in and out of the bedroom.
We’re attracted to a masculine, discreet/down-low, Caucasian man between 30 and 55 who takes care of himself physically and mentally. Average to fit is great. Confidence and attraction matter to us, but so does personality. You should be comfortable with your bisexuality, able to carry a real conversation, have a good sense of yourself and actually want to get to know us rather than jumping immediately into bed.
To be clear about the dynamic, this is not a bull/cuckold situation and that is not what we’re looking for. We want a genuinely bisexual, mutually engaged three-way connection where the attraction goes in every direction. Nobody is there simply to perform a role or focus exclusively on one person. Chemistry, participation, affection and enjoyment should feel natural and mutual between all three of us.
We’re looking for something sensual, playful, sexual and comfortable without being focused on one particular act. Just as importantly, we want someone we can laugh with, have drinks with, grab dinner with, spend an evening with and genuinely enjoy having around.
Ideally you’re local to Waterloo Region or within a reasonable drive, can host and enjoy staying in regular contact. We’d like to see each other a few times a month, sometimes more when schedules and chemistry allow, and let the connection develop naturally rather than forcing expectations.
A working professional would probably fit especially well with our lifestyle. We enjoy nice dinners, drinks, events and occasional social outings. You might be divorced, happily single, too busy for a traditional relationship or simply someone who values having a consistent connection without wanting a significant other. Employment or financial status isn’t a deal breaker, but being able to comfortably join us for dinners and outings is ideal.
Discretion is extremely important to us and we give the same in return. We’re a classy, respectful, above-average-looking couple with a good life and we’re selective about who we bring into it. We also value sexual health and would strongly prefer someone who isn’t regularly sleeping with multiple people while we’re seeing each other.
We’re not expecting to meet five minutes after your first message. We’d rather chat, exchange pictures when comfortable, learn a little about each other and see whether there’s genuine interest. If there is, let’s meet for dinner or drinks with no pressure and find out whether the chemistry is as good in person.
If you’re masculine, genuinely bisexual, discreet, confident, conversational, sexually open, consistent and looking for something ongoing rather than another hookup, tell us about yourself. One-line messages don’t give us much to work with.
Ultimately, we’re looking for one exceptional fit, not a bunch of average encounters. A few disclosures to not waste anyone's time. We cannot host. She does not do vaginal penetration with other men. We are looking for a bi focus although everyone will be participating