Why are you here?
Tell us about your journey with this sub + scat.
Edit: I am specifically asking about your journey and how it relates to this subreddit, r/Coprophiles .
It can be as simple or as complicated as you'd like.
For some people, the reason for being here might be as simple as “I'm here to talk to like minded people,” or, “I just like getting off to scat talk.” And that's great. But for those of you willing to talk about it in more detail, I’d like to hear from you too.
What brought you here? Was it a specific question you had? Was it just to read what others had to say about the subject? Was it to talk about an experience you had? Were you looking for advice? Were you looking to give advice?
How did you find out about this subreddit?
If you're someone that's been here for a while, what keeps / kept you around?
How did it feel finding this community? Was it a positive or a negative experience?
I think I found out about this place from someone I met on a different scat related forum. They told me about it and I didn't give it much thought until the forum I was using shut down.
The thing that initially brought me here several years ago was very simple: I was looking for a scat partner. I didn’t use this sub specifically for that (I made a post on r/scatplayr4r), but I thought that maybe there was a chance to meet and talk to an educated, well-intentioned, mature man on here. Maybe someone would make a post or seem appealing in the comments. Or maybe some lurker would find me from my comments. I never found that person on here specifically, but I did meet someone (now my ex) from my r4r post.
What kept me here was that I found that there were very few female voices in this community. My personal perception is that there is a large female presence in the porn / seller community, but not nearly as many who are on here just for the genuine love of scat and who are brave enough to participate. (I do see you other ladies posting every once in a while, I appreciate you) I’m also guessing that a lot of women don’t know about or need to find an online community. I enjoyed talking to the community and interacting with people like me. I have even made some great friendships. I had enjoyed this kink via porn for many many years before ever wanting to connect with another person. It was nice to find and talk to others.
Then my journey evolved. What continued to keep me here is that I went from having zero experience with any kind of scat play to having experienced everything I ever fantasized about. I also met my ex here on Reddit, which is something a lot of people are also looking for but struggle to do. I thought I could help by talking about my experiences, giving advice, and just being a normal, educated, and relatable person that people could talk to. I made posts both on my profile and on here - hoping to inspire, intrigue, and motivate. I tried to keep the smut quarantined to my profile and tried to keep the posts on here as discussion-worthy as possible. I found that a lot of men just wanted to pick my brain and learn about me and my experiences. I did this for as many as I could and only for those that deserved it…I have never and will never be someone’s kink dispenser. If you speak to me like a human being, I will return the same level of respect. Everything else gets ignored or trashed. My tolerance for bullshit is non-existent.
Then my journey changed here again. I became a mod for this sub. This post seems to have gone on long enough, so I won’t get into detail about how that happened. This taught me a lot and honestly changed my perspective on the community. Learning what goes on behind the scenes here was…interesting. I don’t have to go on about this either. I have a tendency to write a lot so I’m doing my best not to drone on.
That lands me to where I am presently. Admittedly, my relationship with the sub has changed. This is largely because of my past (scat) relationship, becoming a mod, and just generally spending a lot of time on here and other scat subreddits.
I am not actively posting and commenting as much as I used to, but I’m still here. Still reading, still guarding the community, still trying to think of ways to make it better, still wanting the best for our little corner of the internet. I used to be familiar with the regulars and generally really enjoyed talking to people.
I’m hoping with this post I can hear from others, learn about your journeys, and foster discussion for people.
Feel free to ask me any questions in the comments.
Cheers to you all!