u/ObeyMissVanta

My bf and i would like to have a MFM…

Hey! My partner (31M) and i (24F) have been together for 5+ years, the fantasy of doing a threesome and it’s something that we have talked about a lot, (like for 2+ years a lot) and it has become actually what makes us be more turned on and talkative while having relationships.
He was the one to propose it, with another man actually, and he doesn’t mind participating or just watching…
I get very turned on by the idea, but I just don’t know how to get to that point with someone else, i have matched with people on apps but idk how to carry the conversation or anything (specially since i have never had a one night stand or casual sex with anyone, only previous partners).
I really would like to try and find someone that we could go on like a “date” before to be able to get some drinks, dancing or something to get to know us a bit and create some type of connection(bf is okay with this), i couldn’t just invite someone to our place or go to somewhere else since it makes me pretty nervous that way.

Any advice?

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u/ObeyMissVanta — 14 days ago