How to approach
I'm a 23M working in corporate, so I commute to the office by metro every day.
On April 13, 2026, I noticed this guy for the first time. He's got a really nice sense of style, keeps a light beard and moustache, and has a fair to wheatish complexion. Ever since then, I keep seeing him on my commute. Most of the time he's listening to music with earphones and scrolling Instagram.
I kind of have a crush on him, but I'm way too scared to approach him.
For some context, I'm bi-curious. I've never really explored this side of myself before, so this is all pretty new to me and I'm still trying to figure things out.
The thing is, I feel like he's probably straight, and honestly, I also feel like he's way out of my league.
Is it normal to feel this confused? And if anyone has advice, how would you approach someone in a situation like this?
We usually board from the same station (sometimes I get on at the next one), travel in the same coach, and he gets off one station before my destination. Our commute together is usually around 20–30 minutes.