communication
not looking for anyone rn. but i think we need to address an issue that i noticed. even if it’s just looking for hookups, we genuinely need to have better communication skills instead of just leaving people in the dark and wondering. even if a person’s not your type dont just ghost just say “hey you’re not rlly my type sorry” and leave it at that. even i need to work on my communication skills but it’s something that has been bothering me about this subreddit. better to be blunt and honest than just leave someone in the dark sitting and wondering. are we, as gay men, genuinely that shallow to not even say no and to straight up ghost? and anyone else facing these issues?
as much as it looks like it or seems like it, no im not salty that i’m not meeting up with anyone or is this targeting anyone who has left me in the dark. im just expressing how emotionally exhausting it is and how we need to be better at communicating