u/Ornery-Way-3240

1. Why do men take cock pics while sitting on the toilet? The only reason a man sits on a toilet is to poop (hopefully). So if you send me a cock pic while you're on the toilet, that's just nasty.

2. Do men these days not own a tape measure or ruler? I keep getting messages like, check out my 8 inch dick, then a picture of a 5 or 6 inch (which is plenty big for MOST women). A word of advice: if you have 6 inches, say 6 inches, own it. There are 2 things that are a total turn off for me, and most women; men who are chicken, like being scared to show their face to me in a message, and a man who is ashamed of his dick. Be proud of what you have, but be honest. Telling me you have 8 inches then meeting up and you whip out a 5 incher, I don't care if you have 5 inches, I care that you are scared to be honest. My first husband was 6'3" and had 5-6 inches and I would still be with him if he wasn't a drunkard and an abusive liar. My second husband is 5'10" and has a measured 9 inches. I was fine with either one, but second did take a long time to loosen me up, especially my bottom.

3. Why do you guys take zoomed in dick pics with no reference in them? To make it appear bigger? Why??? What if I do get into you and we do meet up? Do you want to be a disappointment? Do you want me to think, wow, this guy is a liar? Who wants that? Be proud of your S, M or L dink. Own it.

I'm recently separated 42F, 5'1.5", 112 lbs, blonde. I have had four kids, but I try to stay very fit. I recently discovered that my second husband, who I've been with for 14 years, has been cheating on me our whole relationship. This broke my heart at first, but now we've decided to separate and see others. I have been married, twice, since I was 19. So this is my first time being "single", in a LONG time. I would like to experiment a little bit since my sex life has been so plain. I'm interested in men only. I prefer tall guys, but not a deal breaker. My first husband was really tall and my second husband was a lot shorter and both were great size for me. I am small and petite. I have full C cup boobs, but they are sagging due to breast feeding all four of my kids. I am very shy about my boobs and my nose, lol. :). If you message me, please send all of your stats. Don't be shy, or hold back. Also, I will not meet up with anyone unless I get to see pics of them. So if you're not going to send me pics, please don't take offense, but there's no need to message me. I am looking for casual hookup(s) and that may lead to more or it may not.