34 [M4F] #Buffalo Structured Master for Power Exchange
I am a 34M Dominant in the EST time zone - Buffalo, specifically. I am not as concerned with your location as I am with the fit between the two of us - If this leads to an in person situation, great. If not, that's perfectly fine too. However, I am not interested in a dynamic with anyone further than 2 times zones away - I find it a lot harder to balance everything the way it needs to be with a bigger time difference than that. To at least touch on the physical attraction base a little bit, here - I'm a 5'9 white guy, glasses, full (but not long) beard and generally you'll find me dressing business-casual as I work in an office. I think I look pretty good, but of course I'd say that! Something something confident Dominant-type.
I'll do my level best to prevent this from being a screen-filling philosophical diatribe about the way I think about D/s dynamics. Suffice to say, the things about a dynamic that appeal to me are the structural and foundational things - Protocol, control, service and the little universe that gets created when the two of us are doing our part. I am not interested in just the sexual aspects of a dynamic - I am very much a high protocol enjoying, rigorous and thorough Dominant. If you are looking for a "quick fix" sort of arrangement or a single scene, we will not get along. The process of learning and establishing the protocols for a dynamic, limits, and objectives is not something I enjoy rushing through.
I wouldn't say that I have a lot of "Must-Haves" - as long as the general philosophy of having a structured and protocol driven dynamic is shared, there are myriad ways to make that happen without needing to run down a checklist. Slave training / TPE, high protocol dynamics, lifestyle control, position training, humiliation, denial, degradation, and misogyny play are all things I thoroughly enjoy, and I am always on board for some rough fucking, impact play, pain play, and all the lovely physical things that come expected as part of being in kink, but it does less than nothing for me without that backbone and foundation in psychology and mentality. A good session of training for me isn't just about having you make me cum - It's all about the mentality and all those lovely brain chemicals. If that appeals to you, we'll get along famously.
Looking forward to having a chat.