u/Outside_Escape3969

M24 here

We started talking casually at first. Nothing intense just normal conversations here and there. Over time, I realized she was completely new to this side of things inexperienced and honestly a little unsure of herself.

She wasn’t opening up much so I told her to relax and just speak freely whatever came to her mind.

Then suddenly she said she wanted to try sexting. I genuinely paused for a second. 😂

But what stood out to me was that she didn’t actually know what she wanted. She had never done anything like this before a complete beginner raised in a strict environment carrying a lot of hesitation and curiosity at the same time.

And honestly, I didn’t look at it as some opportunity to take advantage of her.

Instead, I explained things to her calmly what it was, how it usually works and most importantly that there was absolutely no pressure. I told her that if she felt unsure or uncomfortable at any point, we could stop and just continue talking normally.

Only after making sure she was comfortable and consenting did we explore things a little. Nothing extreme mostly describing ourselves, talking about what we liked slowly easing into intimacy while keeping it respectful and mutual.

Afterwards, I reassured her, comforted her and made sure she felt safe instead of awkward or judged. She relaxed felt better and eventually went to sleep peacefully.

The next morning, she messaged me saying she felt guilty about what had happened. Instead of dismissing her feelings, I listened to her explained that confusion and guilt can happen when someone is new to intimacy especially coming from a strict background. I answered her doubts, comforted her and helped her process those emotions without shame.

And honestly, that’s the part I feel best about.

Not the sexting itself but the fact that she trusted me enough to be vulnerable and I handled that trust with kindness, patience and respect instead of selfishness or judgment.

Being Kind is actually HOT.🥵

Took a lil bit of gpts help.

M24 Here

So we started talking casually at first. Nothing intense just normal conversations here and there. Over time, I realized she was completely new to this side of things inexperienced and honestly a little unsure of herself.

She wasn’t opening up much so I told her to relax and just speak freely whatever came to her mind.

Then suddenly she said she wanted to try sexting. I genuinely paused for a second. 😂

But what stood out to me was that she didn’t actually know what she wanted. She had never done anything like this before a complete beginner raised in a strict environment carrying a lot of hesitation and curiosity at the same time.

And honestly, I didn’t look at it as some opportunity to take advantage of her.

Instead, I explained things to her calmly what it was, how it usually works and most importantly that there was absolutely no pressure. I told her that if she felt unsure or uncomfortable at any point, we could stop and just continue talking normally.

Only after making sure she was comfortable and consenting did we explore things a little. Nothing extreme mostly describing ourselves, talking about what we liked slowly easing into intimacy while keeping it respectful and mutual.

Afterwards, I reassured her, comforted her and made sure she felt safe instead of awkward or judged. She relaxed felt better and eventually went to sleep peacefully.

The next morning, she messaged me saying she felt guilty about what had happened. Instead of dismissing her feelings, I listened to her explained that confusion and guilt can happen when someone is new to intimacy especially coming from a strict background. I answered her doubts, comforted her and helped her process those emotions without shame.

And honestly, that’s the part I feel best about.

Not the sexting itself but the fact that she trusted me enough to be vulnerable and I handled that trust with kindness, patience and respect instead of selfishness or judgment.

Being kind is actually COOL. 😎

A few months ago I went through a breakup and after some time I thought maybe I should start talking to women here online again.

Just genuine conversations nothing forced. It’s only been a week. but honestly, the experience has been pretty disappointing so far.

I’m not a creep or someone who randomly spams DMs. I only message women whose DMs are open and who literally mention in their bio that they’re okay with people texting them. Since most of them say they hate “hi/hello” messages, I actually put effort into my intro and clearly explain why I’m texting them.

The most disappointing thing is they accept the request but even after they don’t even try to hold the conversation. I’m always upfront about what I’m looking for which is building a genuine connection first, earning trust, matching each other’s vibe and then seeing where things go.

I’m someone who genuinely puts effort into conversations but most people I’ve talked they always act nonchalant. One word replies, dry energy, no curiosity at all. Why do you even accept the DM if you don’t wanted talk ???

And honestly how are you even supposed to understand someone’s vibe without actually talking? That’s the whole point. I get that women probably receive a tons of DMs daily but if you’re not interested why not just say it directly instead of acting weird?

Reddit honestly doesn’t feel like the right place for meaningful connections anymore. Too many fake people here too. I’ve already exposed two men pretending to be women within just two days. Got lots of appreciation for that.

Sometimes it feels like a lot of people either want attention, validation or money instead of an actual connection.

I have met a few women here who were genuinely kind and respectful and those conversations felt refreshing. They talk like normal human beings with mutual respect and effort and honestly that’s all I’m looking for.

By “genuine women,” above, I simply mean women who are kind, respectful and actually interested in having real conversations instead of acting cold, egoistic or emotionally unavailable.

So I have been talking to this guy
( u/the_hell_0101 ). He made a post how she(actually he) encountered something bad in the college which made me interested in the post as in the past my ex gf went through something similar.

I shared my thoughts with the person and we had some good conversations.

For once, I sensed a redflag because the way he wrote his ASL. You can see the image - 1.

He says he is in IIT but still so many spelling mistakes. 😭

Then I asked him his gender(sex), he replied like a typical school boy “multiple times a week”. 🤣🤣

⬇️back to today

I was scrolling through this sub only and his post appeared.

He had uploaded an image which after a while got reported and taken down. You can check the image - 4

This is where my senses triggered. 🧐

Now I was trying to find some evidence. So there was one more post with a girl on black lingerie. I was trying to find some mistake which nobody noticed. If you see the boobs of the girls are completely different on the 2nd and 3rd image. You can check the image.

This made me super suspicious so…

I asked him directly why did you delete the post? The person said it got reported. I lured him down to send the photo again so I can jerk off on it. He sent me the photo again.

I went to google and reverse searched the image and guess what. The photo is already out there used by so many people. Image - 5.

You can see it’s already on Pinterest and X.

So, I think it’s pretty evident that this is a guy behind the wheels.

This is my second expose of the week. I think I should be getting an award. 🥇 🤣

Bhaiyo bach k rahna. Always be suspicious.

At last sorry I messed up with the image numbering.

Mods please have look on this matter.