alt-y nerdy bbw here looking for connections of all kinds! i love talking and getting to know people so i'm typically not in a rush to meet up- but this can change if youre local and we hit it off!
in regular life i work full time in allied healthcare and have recently become a first time cat mom! she's a tortie we named spookie but we tend to just call her kitty kitty lol no human children yet but maybe sometime!
like i said a bit nerdy. i love anime/manga, gaming, movies/tv, reading sometimes. i love collecting miscellaneous bullshit like loungefly backpacks and disney ears, pins, to dvd's to plushies and trading cards! living in socal i love disneyland! im still a bit of a disney adult but not as bad as i once was haha ive been trying to make an effort to "touch grass" and get out to do different things. last weekend i went to a 420 cake decorating class and then this weekend i made candles! i also have a shibari class and conventions planned to go to!
full disclosure ive been practicing enm in my relationship for several years, not really looking for more than friends with or without Those benefits, but im open to the idea of bringing on the right person for something more serious if there's chemistry between us! the only real stipulation there is be respectful of my partner and our relationship because he isn't going anywhere.
i am seriously looking for people to get to know with the option of getting into something more than friends! but its cool if you just wanna be friends and play im down for that too
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being super kinky isn't a requirement, i love traditional intimacy as well, buuut kinky shit is definitely my favorite! im a switch, lean dom usually, but ive been itching to play into my submissive side with an experienced partner. i won't turn away someone cute that wants to sub for me tho!
here are some of my major kinks, but i'll try almost anything at least once or twice!
• breeding
• age play (as dom or sub)
• daddy/mommy kink without age play
• impact slapping/spanking (giving and receiving)
• praise/worship (giving and receiving)
there's many other things i like and/or am willing to try. if you have a fun idea let me know!
soft limits are degradation/humiliation (i dont mind/like it in small doses), face fucking, and anal. those two i will try again from time to time but i have to be in the mood or mentally prepared for it.
hard limits are actual children, actual animals, excessive violence, blackmail, race play, body mutilation, scat, vomit.
let me share some dynamics i'm really interested in!
like i said earlier i've really been wanting to lean into my submissive side. i would love to get to know a daddy that would love and take care of me - beware though, i may be a little bit of a brat sometimes so you can't be afraid to keep me in check! i dont typically do tpe but especially if long distance i could be open to taking tasks/following some rules for the sake of the connection.
on the other side of things, i would also love a pushover daddy to spoil and cherish me. even if my partner's on top, i might still be calling the shots!
not interested in being a daddy to me? that's totally ok too! i love cute subs of all kinds. i'm a little pickier about doms but if we get on well i won't be likely to turn you down.
i have no problem with sharing pics so i'm glad to provide them upon request, i would prefer to hear a lil bit about you first!
if anything i have said has resonated with you vanilla or kink wise please feel free to hit me up! i love to emphasize that i'm always looking for Friends first, with or without the sexy benefits. and if you read all this garbage? please remind me of what my cat's name really is.
thanks!