u/PairLonely21

36M married. looking for a genuine sugar baby. (read body text)

Hoping to meet someone kind, ambitious, and easy to talk to. im not more of a sexual person, i just like talking things and fantasy about it. not someone who would satisy you on bed, but i like to get dominated. sorry just being straight forward. i value honesty and consistency. if ur someone who’s looking for the same thing feel free to dm.

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u/PairLonely21 — 5 days ago

Stay alert guys. new scammer in the market. u/Passionate_fox07

Well atleast i didn’t waste your time and i was being straight forward so that we could discuss further. also she sent me some pictures of some instagram girl who was extremely hot and cute. she couldn’t verify and directly blocked me. STAY ALERT GUYS

u/PairLonely21 — 7 days ago

this is for the guys, women can ignore or scroll.

guys, what actually makes you spend money on random women you see online? some of y’all don’t even realize how much this mindset affects your self worth and self respect. paying for temporary attention, validation, or fake affection online doesn’t make you look successful or mature. In many cases, it just shows emotional loneliness and lack of self control.

and the worst part is that many of these interactions are not even genuine. It’s all business to them.

why has intimacy become something some men feel they always have to “buy” or impress with money? real connections, attraction, love, and intimacy should come naturally, not through transactions or constant spending.

a lot of men today confuse attention with affection and lust with connection. stop thinking every interaction with women needs money attached to it. build yourself, focus on your goals, your health, your confidence, and your future. the right people will value you for who you are, not for what you can pay for.

self respect is attractive. desperation is expensive.

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u/PairLonely21 — 15 days ago

the biggest misconception is thinking men are naturally into virtual thing or paying just to look at your pictures. reality is most men are not emotionally invested in that kind of interaction. a man with money wants real experiences, real chemistry not “pay to unlock attention”

a lot of women enter sugar dating thinking every man online is willing to spend money instantly. But the truth is, many of those guys are just lonely, horny, bored, or looking for validation. They’ll waste your time, ask for pictures, flirt for hours, make promises, and disappear the second money gets involved.

honestly a successful man don’t want to “shag through a screen” some do but most of them may not. sugar dating was always about mutual benefit and irl experience.

some women expect instant financial support without building trust or connection, while some men pretend to be providers just to get attention for free.

this sub needs a lot of things to be changed and filtered. mods need to take some action and we need more genuine and legit moderators, not stating that current one is bad its just a single person can’t take all the responsibilities.

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u/PairLonely21 — 17 days ago