I’m a Desi guy and I live in the states, I feel pretty bad about this because these couples would think they were meeting another loving couple for swinging.
But the truth is, I have a friend who agreed to pose as my partner. She occupied these white men while I banged their wives.
My primary goal was to just have sex with bunch of white dude's white wives or girlfriends.
This was a few years ago. My binge lasted at least a year. My friend would hold my arm and kiss me on the cheek and do the small talk perfectly. We had a whole story we would tell. Made up backgrounds. Fake names.
In the end, sex is sex and we used condoms and so what? But I feel terrible about all the lying I did. It was truly a scumbag move to manipulate my way into couples' lives under totally false pretenses. I never really thought of it as amoral until a couple years later. Now I feel bad.