u/PerformerNational566

Hi! I know this is kind of vulgar to ask, but I’m genuinely curious about this kink and the psychology behind it. Is it really as intense/addicting as people describe?

I’ve been single for almost 3 years now, but back when I had a live-in partner, I tried opening up about it once. He said he wasn’t into it, and of course I respected that completely, so we never explored it further.

Now I’m just curious if this is actually more common than people admit, or if it’s one of those kinks that only works for certain people/dynamics.

Do you think CNC is something most people can enjoy with enough trust and communication, or is it really not for everyone?