I’ve always been insanely self-conscious about my body. Up top, I’m totally petite and slim, like pretty small boobs I'd say but down below? Yaar, it’s a problem tbh. Its my ASS thats kinda bug i feel( i mean for me it is big could be normal me others perspective) and also my thighs yaar 😭. It drives me crazy because I completely hate getting those creepy stares or being sexualised for no reason—especially at the office.

Because of this, I strictly wear super loose, oversized, or traditional clothes to completely hide my curves. But the paranoia is real. Whenever I wear something even slightly fitted, the creepy stares scare me af.

I need some brutal honesty from the guys here:

Can you actually tell what’s hidden behind loose or traditional clothes? Like, if we walk past each other or meet for a first date, is it still totally obvious that I'm thicc? If yes… how do you guys even notice, and is there any styling hack to completely camouflage it?

Soo my body type is basically slim thick. Im slip up top but my ass and thighs are just kinda big and plump af(which i hate btw because of clothes which i cant wear).

Ive read on X that spooning position can be a problem with a big assed girl? Is it true? Read it on social media somewhere. I kinda tried it and it didnt go too well so like is this problem gonna be there forever or were we just too inexperienced. Could it be a thing with my bf or me?

I'm already super embarrassed about asking this but one last thing😭 - BC WHILE RIDING IN COWGIRL WHY IS IT THAT MY ASS IS LITERALLY HITTING MY BFs BALLS EVERYTIME LITERALLY CRUSHING THEM(he says). IS IT ME OR HIM? He's always complaining about it and we are both kinda inexperienced.

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Soo my body type is basically slim thick. Im slip up top but my ass and thighs are just kinda big and plump af(which i hate btw because of clothes which i cant wear).

Ive read on X that spooning position can be a problem with a big assed girl? Is it true? Read it on social media somewhere. I kinda tried it and it didnt go too well so like is this problem gonna be there forever or were we just too inexperienced. Could it be a thing with my bf or me?

I'm already super embarrassed about asking this but one last thing😭 - BC WHILE RIDING IN COWGIRL WHY IS IT THAT MY ASS IS LITERALLY HITTING MY BFs BALLS EVERYTIME LITERALLY CRUSHING THEM(he says). IS IT ME OR HIM? He's always complaining about it and we are both kinda inexperienced.

I’ve always been insanely self-conscious about my body. Up top, I’m totally petite and slim, but down below? Yaar, it’s a lot. To be blunt, my a$$ is just really big, plump, and heavy, and my thighs are an even bigger problem 😭. It drives me crazy because I completely hate getting those creepy stares or being sexualised for no reason—especially at the office.

Because of this, I strictly wear super loose, oversized, or traditional clothes to completely hide my curves. But the paranoia is real. Whenever I wear something even slightly fitted, the creepy stares scare me af so i just avoid it. Also tbh i dont want a guy to like for that part and i'd never even know what he's liking me for! That scares me

I need some brutal honesty from the guys here:

Can you actually tell what’s hidden behind loose or traditional clothes? Like, if we walk past each other or meet for a first date, is it still totally obvious that I'm thicc? If yes… how do you guys even notice, and is there any styling hack to completely camouflage it?