First time couple

My wife and I both 39 are considering visiting a sex club for the first time, but we're not sure we're interested in sharing or playing with other people yet. We're mostly curious about the atmosphere, meeting like-minded couples, and possibly just observing.

For couples who started out hesitant, how did your first visit go? Did you set specific boundaries beforehand? Were you comfortable just watching and socializing, or did you feel pressure to participate?

What advice would you give a couple who is curious but wants to take things slowly and make sure the experience strengthens the relationship rather than creating issues?

Thanks in advance for any insights or experiences you're willing to share.

Please comment here and not in our dm. 😊

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u/Playful_Ant3606 — 30 days ago