u/Pleasant-Taro6404

31-year-old bi woman here, partnered with a 40-year-old straight male. He’s been part of the lifestyle for years, and together we’re interested in exploring more social, group-oriented experiences where I’d be the primary focus during evenings together, overnights, and similar gatherings. My preference is generally for bi or heteroflexible men who are comfortable in that dynamic.

Connection comes before anything else. Mutual attraction is great, but rapport, trust, and the ability to genuinely enjoy each other’s company matter far more. A good wit goes a long way, so we should be the kind of people who could happily spend an afternoon talking over coffee just as easily as anything else. Extra appreciation if you have that classic 1960s–70s leading-man look, think young Robert Redford, Paul Newman, etc (a girl can dream.)

I’m most attracted to self-awareness, emotional maturity, confidence without ego, open communication, sensuality, playful power exchange, and friendships that develop naturally. Tell me who you are, what excites you, what makes you laugh, and what you’re hoping to find.

Being open about sexual health is non-negotiable. Recent testing and honest conversations about status are simply part of being respectful adults.

Outside the bedroom, I have a soft spot for cats, gardening, strong Americanos, vintage Playboy magazines (currently conducting highly scientific research on changing aesthetics through the decades i.e. bush or no bush?), fairness, thoughtful people, and messages that contain more than “hey.” If you reach out, include your stats, status, photos or profile, and a little about your experience or interests.