My friends unknowingly kinkshamed me
I love my friends, they are a great support system and are my rock really. Only one of my friends knows my kinks, and she is not in this friend circle, but I haven’t told anyone else, for privacy reasons. This circumstance validated those fears. I was with two other friends and we were talking about a guy we had come across on Tinder, who had boldly said to my friend that he wanted to watch her take a shit (I admire the balls but is tinder really the best place lol?) and she started going off on how disgusting it was and how can people ever get turned on by it. I then automatically felt so ashamed, and tried to carefully tell her to not kink shame and explain why people might be aroused by that, but I couldn’t get over how rude she was. She then proceeded to go on about the fact that she had done blood/pain play, and then when I said that doesn’t sound like I would find that fun or excited, and she proceeded to tell me off for supposedly kink shaming her.
How do you deal when people shame other coprophiles? This topic of conversation hasn’t cropped up often for me outside of safe spaces like this, but perhaps maybe I feel a little ashamed because of seeing how my friend reacted to it.