u/Puzzled_Research_848

Hello, male half of a couple here posting on our behalf. We are considering dipping our toes into hotwifing/fun with another gent for the first time.

We're not in a rush by any means and it's more about only moving along if we find the right person and fit. We've played with women several times in the past and are looking to explore a gent for the first time. Tried to be as detailed as possible below, and will ignore any messages which are disrespectful/just sending nsfw pics off the bat and which are just not a clear fit.

About us:

• She's a vivacious woman of mixed heritage who cares deeply about meaningful work that is helping make the world better
• 5'5, with a wonderful mocha skin tone and an amazing posterior, height weight proportionate and enjoys jazzercise and is a giver
• I'm 5'7, 155lbs, an immigrant, brown, love to read and learn more about the world by meeting different types of people and learning their stories but also have a very curious streak to learn random things and have been revisiting my fitness journey recently.

What are we looking for:

• While looks obviously play a role, personality is huge for us - into kind, well spoken and interesting individuals who are well groomed
• Be within reasonable age range of us: +/- 5 years would be great and height-weight proportionate
• Not being self-professed 'doms', 'alpha' etc sorts. We are not into any sort of humiliation play. Please be single or playing with the consent of your partner, NOT into cheating.
• Endowment etc is not of importance, not about size but more about the person attached to it, being respectful.
• Preference for circumsized
• Huge plus if Bi
• Soft spot for gingers, asian gents or those of mixed heritage
• Are not in a rush, willing to take things slow, recognizing it's our first time considering this
• Looking for a one time meet up if things go well and assess, want to ensure no presumptions about recurring fun
• Respects discretion

Please be willing to meet up in a casual, public setting first to chat and such and see if we're a suitable fit and take it from there.

Note: My first r4r post and practicing vulnerability here. Looking for someone else who might be intrigued by the following scenario. Full disclosure pursuing this with the consent of my partner.

* I've identified as straight to date but am curious one rather specific scenario involving another gent.
* I find the idea of wrestling or light sparring with another gent rather exciting! Also open to the male half of a straight couple like myself or a gay couple, even if their partners want to watch.
* The homoerotic energy and primal test of strength is intriguing.
* I am seeking someone within a reasonable size range: I'm 5"8, 158 lbs, skinny-fat
* preferably someone within a reasonable age range please (+/- 10 years).
* I also happen to be rather out of shape due to poor work-life balance and am hoping to use this as a cheeky motivation to get into some shape.
* Note: not looking for any sort of further sexual engagement (nudity, sex or release).
* Also not looking for someone who is trained in any martial arts or such - not looking to get badly hurt or inflict hurt. thinking of pins and submission wrestling mostly but also open to wrestling with light to medium body punches or such as well.
* By no means am I looking into rush into this and am hoping to find someone I am comfortable with and patient about this.
* In an ideal scenario, I would love to chat with someone discuss details and set a date a little fair out and build up to it before engaging in the bout.
* The idea of oil wrestling even sounds exciting as an option!

I've got a pretty good sense of what I'm interested in and what I'd like to try so would appreciate if folks looking for something else did not reach out please!

I by no means need those to happen but it’s about finding the right fit and if it happens it happens it happens is my mindset !

Note: My first r4r post and practicing vulnerability here. Looking for someone else who might be intrigued by the following scenario. Full disclosure pursuing this with the consent of my partner.

* I've identified as straight to date but am curious one rather specific scenario involving another gent.
* I find the idea of wrestling another gent rather exciting! Also open to the male half of a straight couple like myself or a gay couple, even if their partners want to watch.
* The homoerotic energy and primal test of strength is intriguing.
* I am seeking someone within a reasonable size range: I'm 5"8, 160 lbs.
* preferably someone within a reasonable age range please
* I also happen to be rather out of shape due to poor work-life balance and am hoping to use this as a cheeky motivation to get into some shape.
* Note: not looking for any sort of further sexual engagement (nudity, sex or release).
* Also not looking for someone who is trained in any martial arts or such - not looking to get badly hurt or inflict hurt.
* By no means am I looking into rush into this and am hoping to find someone I am comfortable with and patient about this.
* In an ideal scenario, I would love to chat with someone discuss details and set a date a little fair out and build up to it before engaging in the bout.
* The idea of oil wrestling even sounds exciting as an option!

I've got a pretty good sense of what I'm interested in and what I'd like to try so would appreciate if folks looking for something else did not reach out please!

I by no means need those to happen but it’s about finding the right fit and if it happens it happens it happens is my mindset !