u/Quirky-Secretary8621

months of no contact and i still yearn for him. punish me? help me forget

sick, stressed, overworked, and wala pang bebe time

namimiss ko pa rin sya. ahahhaaha

chat habang nasa training ako?

I'm on mommy duty and just waiting lang for the next hour to pass..

i planned to watch a movie while waiting pero I don't feel like it na.

chat? help me na wag matulala na lang dito sa tabi-tabi🫩

abt me:

single mom

maputi, chubby, chinita

abt you:

mabait

up for chat

edit? ano'ng ginagawa ng mga 20's dito sa sub na to? ahahahhaa

I think what I’m really looking for is a genuine connection. The kind where conversations feel easy, silence feels safe, and you slowly become each other’s comfort person.

Someone I can emotionally connect with. A best friend I can talk to about anything — random thoughts, quiet fears, little wins, bad days, life at 2AM. Someone constant.

I’ve learned that attraction fades without connection, and connection rarely happens when people are only looking for temporary highs. So I guess I’m here hoping to meet someone who still values depth, consistency, and emotional intimacy.

About me:

working professional

introvert leaning

emotionally aware and trying to heal properly

soft-hearted but guarded at first

loves meaningful conversations

single mom

About you:

emotionally available

kind and communicative

around my age sana

looking for something real, even if we start slow

Maybe we become really good friends.

Maybe we become each other’s safe place.

And maybe, just maybe, if life is kind to us, we become partners too.

But for now, let’s just start with a conversation that feels genuine.

I think what I’m really looking for is a genuine connection. The kind where conversations feel easy, silence feels safe, and you slowly become each other’s comfort person.

Someone I can emotionally connect with. A best friend I can talk to about anything — random thoughts, quiet fears, little wins, bad days, life at 2AM. Someone constant.

I’ve learned that attraction fades without connection, and connection rarely happens when people are only looking for temporary highs. So I guess I’m here hoping to meet someone who still values depth, consistency, and emotional intimacy.

About me:

working professional

introvert leaning

emotionally aware and trying to heal properly

soft-hearted but guarded at first

loves meaningful conversations

single mom

About you:

emotionally available

kind and communicative

around my age sana

looking for something real, even if we start slow

Maybe we become really good friends.

Maybe we become each other’s safe place.

And maybe, just maybe, if life is kind to us, we become partners too.

But for now, let’s just start with a conversation that feels genuine.

for ice cold coffee, cuddles, and kisses...

chat?

tell me something interesting. tamad na tamad ang utak ko mag isip ngayon.

or if night shift ka din and want na may ibang taong kasama, want to co-work some time?

chill kwentuhan lang or we can just mind our own tasks.

we can rent airbnb or much better if you can host.

abt me:

chubby, maputi, chinita

introvert

abt you:

mabait

hindi ako ilalagay sa maleta

PS. I meant to post this sa other sub but was taken down by mods. don't know why

wala lang. ngayon na lang ako ulit nagka-crush sa random guy. may nakasakay ako sa van kanina na maputing guy, chinito, at matangkad. ewan ko. iba yung dating nya. ahahaha. tall, dark, and funny talaga ang preference ko pero parang ang sarap nya gawing baby😂

chat? kumusta ang araw nyo?

single mom here

maputi, chubby, chinita

samahan mo ako?

no plans actually. just feeling down.

edit: or rather isama mo ako sa trip mo today?

I've been busy. keeping myself distracted pero at the end of the day, i am still not whole. i still miss that person who broke me kahit alam kong di ko na sya dapat balikan. time is supposed to heal me pero it just makes me miss him more.

i miss the feeling of belonging to someone. so..i can be anything you need me to be. as long as you stay constant. keep my mind occupied para wala na akong maisip na hindi dapat isipin. let's make new memories.

so.. dm me your asl? what can i do for you?

abt me:

single mom

maputi

chubby

chinita

empty canvass as of now

abt you:

willing to build connection with me

consistent

kind

genuine

I've been busy. keeping myself distracted pero at the end of the day, i am still not whole. i still miss that person who broke me kahit alam kong di ko na sya dapat balikan. time is supposed to heal me pero it just makes me miss him more.

i miss the feeling of belonging to someone. so..i can be anything you need me to be. as long as you stay constant. keep my mind occupied para wala na akong maisip na hindi dapat isipin. let's make new memories.

so.. dm me your asl? what can i do for you?

abt me:

single mom

maputi

chubby

chinita

empty canvass as of now

abt you:

willing to build connection with me

consistent

kind

genuine

feeling this emptiness and boredom kahit busy naman ako sa work ko.

I don't know how to fill this void. small talks doesn't excite me anymore.

how about we find our purpose in life together?

make me an offer I can't resist. help me live my life again? make me feel something other than this emptiness?

abt me:

single mom, maputi, chubby, chinita

abt you:

decent person

bored. gustong gumala pero tinatamad din lumabas. ano'ng ganap mo today? baka pwedeng pasama?

37, F, maputi, chubby, chinita, single mom

yeah. 1 month na akong nagrerelapse and i need a rebound guy to distract me.

tell me why should i choose you? what can you do for me?

getting intimate is given when the vibe is right. pero what else?

abt me:

average looking, chubby, maputi, chinita, 5'0

single mom

pagod na sa small talks

abt you:

35 & up

non smoker

giver

mabait, malambing, hindi nonchalant

I'm basically running on fumes and experiencing brain fog so .. tell me something interesting?

been trying to heal pero di ko na kaya mag isa. i was too attached sa previous partner that I can't seem to let go kahit tanggap ko ng wala na kami.

a rebound guy will help me daw.

if you take me places, I'll help you reach heaven din.

charet 😂

edit: please tell me something interesting. tinatamad na ako sa buhay ko

chat?

tell me something interesting. tamad na tamad ang utak ko mag isip ngayon.

or if night shift ka din and want na may ibang taong kasama mamaya, want to co-work? para hindi lang monitor ang kaharap natin.

chill kwentuhan lang or we can just mind our own tasks.

abt me:

chubby, maputi, chinita

introvert

abt you:

mabait

hindi ako ilalagay sa maleta

okay naman na ako the first few months and now, I'm back to yearning. mag 1 month na syang nasa isip ko constantly.. yung tipong kahit ano'ng pagpapakabusy ang gawin ko, at the end of the day, sya pa rin.

i know I'm better off without him.. pero ewan

let's heal together? i can't do this on my own na.