u/RandomBigUsername

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

He had been replaying the same fantasy for months in which he is in bed with a hottie. She has no face but she understands him and he understands her. It isn't just a physical thing for him. Even though he had been playing the scenario every day for a while, he cannot describe the other person physically. He can't picture her face or body. Just the idea of a girl he connects emotionally to and is comfortable with. She understands him and what he wants and he understands hers and both work on pleasing each other. He doesn't just want to receive pleasure, he wants to give as well because he gets more pleasure in knowing the other person is enjoying too. He's a giver. She isn't just a giver, but a good receiver too. His goal isn't orgasm. He wants to have a good time, a slow burn, sensual and constantly arousing. Orgasms are optional and if/when there are any, he prefers that she has hers before he has his because when he gets his, he goes weak and frail for a couple of minutes and so it usually signals the end of the good time, or the start of a long break.

He is fit as fuck. Not a bodybuilder. He is slim and athletic and looks very much like an athlete. He is a huge football fan and wears his favourite club's jersey all the time, buys new jerseys every season. He looks like someone who not only follows football, but plays football regularly and lives football. He hasn't played in over 2 years though. He's a hybrid athlete and surprisingly strong for his physique. A sleeper build of sorts. He is an anxious person in general. One time he couldn't get it up with a girl and that spiralled him into a performance anxiety loop. He worries that next time he gets in bed with a woman, he's not gonna be able to stay hard and that worrying actually makes him lose whatever he has. And it happened. Over and over again. His confidence took a hit every time it happened. He got himself checked and medically he has no physical muscle or nerve issues. It's all in his head. His therapist asks him to be kind to himself but he's never been able to, at least in this context.

In his imaginary scenario, he's with the girl and she's unbothered by his erections playing hide and seek. She's enjoying every moment she's with him. They're having a ton of foreplay and oral. And cuddles. My god, they can't take their hands off each other. It is super hot. He has been trying to recreate this scene with someone in person, but is very single and not able to meet anyone organically or via apps.

He's also looking for a sugar baby. He's seeking more of a sugar relationship. He makes posts on reddit. He gets replies, but most go nowhere. The last one who reached out to him was upfront about what she offered. She wasn't looking for a conventional sugar thing, but described herself as a very sexual person and wanted money and was willing to use her sexuality in exchange for it. He didn't like the idea. He couldn't see it as anything other than escorting. She wanted something long term and so he assumed the proposition was like having an escort that he'd meet regularly. It wasn't what he wanted.

She had pics on her profile and she was gorgeous. There were barely any filters. In fact, the only thing she did was mask her face. Everything else was just like a camera pic without any filters. No artificial colours or smoothening, no brightness or contrast adjustments, nothing. Her posts didn't get much traction as most top posts have over-the-top editing and look unrealistic, but he loved how pleasant she seemed in these natural pics. He interacted and learnt she was only a couple of kilometres away and so he could meet her almost impromptu like. Some negotiation on the pricing over a few days and eventually an agreement was reached. Now all that was left was to just meet one day.

They had different lives, different schedules etc. When he was in the area, she wasn't. When she was available, he wasn't. At times one of them was still at work or having their personal time. A few weeks passed with them going back and forth and being unable to meet. Eventually the stars aligned and he rushed to her place. She took precautions and let him into her place. His intuition told him she had a guy helping her out, but she was genuine and wasn't gonna run away with the money or give bad service. He gave the money upfront and she said it could wait till the end of the session but he insisted. She took it, counted and kept it aside and then got into bed, onto him and asked him what he wanted.

He told her what he wanted. She listened carefully and nodded in agreement and said okay. This was a big deal for him. The performance anxiety was a source of his worries and the best thing that could happen to him was someone accepting him despite his shortcomings. She listened to him without any judgement and accepted him. He felt safe. His emotions ran wild. First it was the fear of not being accepted and the anticipation around that and overthinking of how to deal with it. Then came relief. There was some disbelief too because every time he played this scenario in his head with someone, it always ended with the woman not being receptive of the idea and just wanting to get paid and do as little work as possible. Plus PTSD from people that were emotionally involved with him in the past having been harsh on his dysfunctions. The calmness was followed by happiness. Then she started hugging and kissing him. He was euphoric.

Kisses on the cheeks and rubbing bodies on each other. She started slow but increased her pace and intensity. He matched until he could match no more and so flipped her around and started doing the same things with the tempo and sensuality he wanted. She understood the cue and matched it and maintained it. He appreciated how this communication happened without speaking a word and felt there was good chemistry and was elated. This was where he felt like his true self. He had become the 'be yourself' version that people advise and felt confident speaking up and stating what he wanted.

She asked if she could suck him and he said yes. She started taking off his clothes and didn't know how to unlock the belt. He got up, got out, unlocked the belt, unbuckled the jeans, opened the zipper and took the jeans off. She started taking her top off. He took his tshirt off. Both were only in their underwear now. She got up to take the condom packet from the bedside and tear it open. He took his underwear off and was fully naked. He was neat, clean, well groomed and smelled nice as always. Hygiene was never a worry, but an inconsistent erection was. Though he had gotten hard during the makeout, he had become limp now. He started to worry about how people in the past brought up the limpness in these moments and how it made him feel judged and unworthy and feared it was going to happen again. The worry is constant every time he meets someone. However, she was sweet. She started holding it with her hands, jerking it slowly, got up and started making out. She had learnt that the makeouts made him hard and so went for it again. Such a fast learner. The chemistry was great and overpowered his worries and he got hard in no time. She felt it and the moment she realised it was hard enough to put the condom on, she did.

Soon, she started sucking him. He felt good. He doesn't like it much with a condom as it takes away the physical sensations and pleasure by a large extent, but he was in a good place emotionally and feeling great chemistry. The girl was hot too, so he was aroused as fuck. It was enough to keep him hard. She kept sucking. He tried to bask in all the pleasure, and enjoy it while just standing there at the edge of the bed while she was sitting on the edge, still in her underwear and sucking him. It didn't feel much for him and so he started rubbing his hands on her body and pressing lightly here and there. He took her bra off and the unhooking process took longer than expected. He felt embarrassed about not being able to do it instantly like a champ and being far from it. It went away almost instantly because she was unbothered about it. Didn't talk about it, just kept sucking and once it was unhooked and he wanted it removed, she did that. Went back to sucking.

He rubbed her butt and put his hand into her panty from the back and fondled the buttcheeks a few times. Went back to rubbing her back and neck and head while she was sucking. She got up, removed her panty and soon both of them were nude. She got onto the bed and sat on all fours and pushed her butt out. He was so turned on, he felt he might climax, but somehow resisted. He was so horny and didn't want to stop enjoying. He gave a light spank and gave her a few rubs and bites on the butt cheeks. She smelled natural there and got tempted into eating her out. He said he wanted to go down on her. She changed positions, so that she was lying down on her back, head on the pillow and then spread her legs, inviting him in.

He took a good look at the pussy. It was something he had been fantasizing about for a couple of weeks now. Didn't have an idea of what her pussy would look like and now that he had access, he wanted a mental photograph. There was a bit of pubic hair, something he wasn't fond of, in anyone, including him, but other than that, it was very pretty and inviting. The chemistry was great and he was having a good time and wasn't gonna let some pubic hair ruin it and so went down. He did this thing where he rubbed his nose on the inner thighs close to the pussy. A tease. Did that a few times. She seemed to enjoy it. Then he did the nose rub on the pussy lips. Her body reacted. Clutched. He knew she enjoyed it. Did it a few times, then with the lips but mouth closed. Then started licking her.

She wasn't opening her legs wide enough for him to be as comfortable as he wanted, but wide enough for him to lick the lips. He started licking her pussy, started exploring with angles and pressure and switching between wide and pointy tongues occasionally, sensing to see where she found pleasure. There was nothing for a minute or two and he was starting to think he was doing it wrong or the girl wasn't interested in having pleasure herself and just wanted the money, but didn't give up. Continued licking and exploring and at some point she flinched. She was enjoying it, just that it took time for her to warm up. He was relieved that she was into the act too. He made a mental note of the place where she was feeling more pleasure and started licking around it and occasionally at the spot too. He could feel the enlarged clit and focused on it. Kept licking. Closed his eyes and she had closed in her legs and so his ears were kinda shut too. Two of his senses were ineffective, but it also meant his three other senses were more sensitive than usual and he could feel it. He started noticing the smell of her sweaty nether regions. The taste of her insides and the texture of her labia and clit. Everything was increasing his arousal. He couldn't have been more turned on.

He kept doing it for a while and could feel her flinch and clench at times and maybe even hear a faint moan. It felt genuine and not a made up one. Maybe it was fake, but the way her pussy reacted and the wet it had become, he thought it was genuine and took pride in knowing he could please a woman sexually. At some point she did her fake orgasm routine and then asked him to fuck her. The latter part was hot and the first one wasn't, but he took it as a cue that she didn't want to just lie down there forever and wanted to finish the session.

She got up and started to blow him again. He wanted to ask her something. Normally he would've had to muster courage, think it a few times over before asking her, but not today. He was confident in the chemistry and with no hesitation he asked if she would sit on his face. She wasn't taken aback, but was a bit surprised or curious and asked what exactly he wanted to do. He said he wanted a 69 thingy where he continues to eat her while she blows him and jerks him to completion. She said okay and they got into position. He was lying on the bed and she on top of him such that her pussy is on his face, near the lips. He went for it before she was fully in position and bending to suck him. He was on cloud nine. He had been fantasizing this moment with a girl for a long time and now he is actually doing it with a super hot girl and having great chemistry. Arousal crossed the tipping point and he knew he was gonna climax. He announced it to her and on cue, she moved from blowing to jerking with hands.

He had an intense orgasm and all his senses went blank for a couple of seconds. He could not see, hear, smell, taste or feel any external touch sensations. All he could feel was pleasure. Pure ecstasy. In the moment he forgot all his worries. The erectile dysfunction issues. The way life has been treating him. The stress from daily life and work. The tensions, the worries, the fears, the sadness. Everything disappeared for a few seconds and he wanted it to never end.

But it did and in a few moments he realized he had just climaxed and she had jerked and squeezed out the last drop into the condom. He had stopped licking her too. He didn't want to stop, but his body gave up. He couldn't feel it or move it. Like every ounce of energy has been taken off him. He had nothing left. She got up and asked him to move. He said he had no energy. She didn't take it well, so he added that she drained him of his energy and he needs a few minutes to recharge. She took that well, smiled and pushed him to make space for herself and then lied down adjacent to him, face to face and cuddled him.

This was his favourite part of sexual encounters. The post sex cuddles. Not the ones after they've gotten up, cleaned and energized. The cuddles immediately following his climax and her satisfaction. It's what he craves the most and he's ecstatic that he just had that moment. He somehow moved his body and wrapped his arms around her, with some grunting to show that he was pushing behind his physical limits and the moment to get that done. She smiled and he said this was his favourite part of sex. She said it was hers too and they cuddled for a couple of minutes. Nothing said, nothing asked. Just silence. Two people, naked, in each other's arms, full vulnerability, just savouring the moment.

Back to earth in a couple of minutes. He got up and cleaned, she followed. He started putting his clothes. He was still wobbly and devoid of energy and was slow. She was done wearing clothes and making her hair and then watching him dress up, in amusement and maybe in pride too, at how she had brought down a man with her sexuality. He let her have it and asked her if she could help zip him up and pointed to his jeans. She found it hilarious and cute and obliged. One long hug before he left. He couldn't keep his hands off her until he had physically gotten out of her place. He had a huge grin on the way back home and re-playing what had happened and soaking in all the pleasure. The traffic, something that bothers him easily, didn't affect him at all. He reached home and texted to thank her for the good time. She appreciated it and he said he wanted to meet her again in a few days. She said she looked forward to it.

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post

I'm looking for something long term, that will benefit both of us. This will not be a get rich (quick) scheme, so if that's among the things you're seeking, you can stop reading. An ideal match would be someone, who is shy, reserved, introverted and maybe even prudish to most people, but wants to explore with an older mature gentleman while feeling safe and secure. The world isn't ideal and if you resonate with some/many of these things, let's connect, talk a bit, define boundaries, verify and then meet.

 

 

#FAQ

 

Q. What if I'm not from/in Bangalore?

A. This is not for you

 
Q. Will this be discreet?

A. Yes. Not willing to share/obtain any identifiable information like college/workplace/address/aadhar and what not. Things like your qualification, nature of work, city, state, hobbies, interests etc will help a major deal with conversations and non-identifiable information can be shared.

 
Q. Is this a relationship?

A. It is a relationship of some sorts, yes. Cannot put a name to it, but I'll say it is a lite version of a regular relationship. There could be some emotions and I'd prefer to have at least some of it. There will be stability, friendship and more, but I will not be your saviour. You're independent. I'm independent. It's like like that chart with two intersecting circles.

 

visible confusion

 

Q. What about physical intimacy?

A. This will be one of the pillars of it. I like slow, sensual vanilla stuff. Foreplay and Postplay are more important importanter than anything/everything in between. This will be the go-to stuff. Open to exploring things/kinks based on comfort levels.

 

Q. Aha, What about safety?

A. I test regularly and I'm clean. Can furnish reports too. Expecting the same.

 

Q. Not that safety you dumbass.

A. We aren't gonna rush into anything. Before building the pillars, let's build a strong foundation. Let's talk a bit here (or any other anonymous platform), discuss things, verify, talk a bit more, establish boundaries, talk even more, meet in a public place, go back and then talk again to see if we want to meet again or part ways.

 

Q. You talk about pillars but have mentioned only one.

A. Communication would be one. Self awareness is another. There's nothing more sexier than a self aware person talking about their needs and expectations in a clear, crisp, concise, complete, alliterative and straightforward manner.

 

Q. I like some things you mentioned but not all.

A. Good. I would be suspicious if you were okay with everything.

 

Q. I have questions.

A. You can ask, or wait till my mind reading capabilities are installed.

 

Q. How do we proceed?

A. Send me a message. Please be as detailed as possible. Vibes match only when the efforts match as well. Be willing to verify. To show that you've read everything, add the secret code I mentioned in your first message.

 

Q. I sent a message, but you didn't reply. Why?

A. You didn't read the post