u/Reesetheperson

Anyone else can’t fit into this community?

I’ve liked belly buttons for my whole life, the thing is I don’t fit into the community for multiple reasons. First of all, I’m nonbinary and most people here are cis men and women. So I feel too fucking woke to be here. Second, I feel like people here only care about your body and not you as a person. I’m chubby with a wide and horizontal belly button. I personally love mine but I can’t get over that I have a -1000% chance of people liking it because in my experience I felt like the people only loved slim tummies with vertical belly buttons and any other type can jump off a cliff. It really gave off incel vibes in the worst way possible. (Yes, you can harass call me blue hair and pronouns liberal in the comments) and lastly, I couldn’t find people who saw me for more than a belly button. I’d think they actually cared about me as a person and I’d tell them stuff, but they found it annoying. I feel like I’m in the wrong for liking belly buttons but also wanting to connect with people and actually get to fucking know them along with talking belly buttons. Anyway I’ve felt a disconnect from the community for these reasons and I’m convinced I’ll never find someone who understands me and get it. Alright, rant over. Try to keep the harassment to a minimum if you can, and if not that’s okay too.

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u/Reesetheperson — 7 days ago