u/RelationshipClarity-

Married couple in the Modesto / 209 area looking to meet another attractive, respectful, easygoing MF couple.

We’re fit, clean, drug-free, non-smokers, drama-free, and big on good energy, chemistry, comfort, and communication. Ideally, we’d like to meet a couple we can actually connect with, laugh with, grab drinks or coffee first, and see if the vibe is there naturally.

We’re not really into endless back-and-forth messaging. It has burned us before with conversations that go nowhere, and we’re busy with life, work, and a young kid, so availability can be limited sometimes. But when the interest and vibe are real, we’re always open to meeting halfway for a beer or coffee, especially if you’re a little farther from us.

Looking within about 100 miles max.

We’re not looking for a one-and-done. We’d rather build something fun, comfortable, and ongoing with the right couple, repeat clients preferred lol.

Outside of this, we like being active, hiking, tennis, camping, gym, good food, drinks, and just enjoying good company.

For boundaries: same-room play only, condoms are a must for vaginal, and neither of us is bi. We’re not into pressure, awkward energy, or messy situations. Attraction matters, but personality, respect, and chemistry matter just as much.

CALIFORNIA

SINGLE MEN WILL BE BLOCKED WITHOUT A RESPONSE.

We’re looking for a fun relaxed couples to enjoy life with, we’re looking for something very simple. If you are fit, clean and respectful couple mid age, wanna have some fun. DM us.

We’re a real married couple, 37M and 31F, in the Modesto / 209 area, hoping to meet another real MF couple who is attractive, respectful, easygoing, and actually wants a connection, not just a random one-night awkward meet.
We’re both fit, clean, normal, drama-free, and big on comfort, communication, hygiene, and mutual attraction. We’re not trying to rush anything. The ideal vibe for us is: chat a little, verify we’re all real, exchange recent PG-13 couple photos, meet for drinks somewhere normal, laugh, see if the chemistry is there, and let it build naturally.
We’re looking for a couple that wants something fun, respectful, and possibly ongoing if everyone clicks. Friendship matters to us. Personality matters. Good energy matters. Attraction matters too, but we’re not looking for pushy, messy, secretive, or uncomfortable situations.
Couples around 25-45 would be ideal. Local or close enough to the 209 area is preferred.
When you message, please include:
Ages
Location
What you’re looking for
Experience level
Comfort level / boundaries
A recent PG-13 couple photo
We’ll gladly do the same once we know we’re talking to a real couple.
Important: MF couples only. Single men, please do not message us. We keep getting messages from single males even though the post clearly says couple. If you message anyway, we won’t respond, we’ll just block.
Clean, respectful, real couples only. If you’re genuine, easy to talk to, and looking for drinks first with no pressure, say hi.

Hey Reddit,
We’re a married couple, 37M and 31F, located in the Modesto / 209 area. We’re looking to meet another attractive, respectful, easygoing MF couple for good conversation, chemistry, friendship, and possibly something ongoing if the vibe is right.
We’re both fit, clean, respectful, drama-free, and big on comfort, communication, and mutual attraction. We’re not looking to rush anything or force a connection. Ideally, we’d like to find a couple we can actually enjoy talking to, laugh with, meet for drinks first, and build a fun FWB-style friendship naturally over time.
We’re interested in couples who are laid-back, confident, hygienic, and respectful of boundaries. Attraction matters to us, but personality, chemistry, and good energy matter just as much. We’re not into pushy people, awkward pressure, or messy situations.
Ideally looking for couples around 25–45, local or close enough to the 209 area, who are open-minded, real, and know how to communicate clearly.
Please message us with your ages, location, what you’re looking for, your experience level, comfort level, and a recent PG-13 couple photo. We’ll gladly do the same once we know we’re talking to a real couple.
Clean, respectful, fun couples only. Let’s chat, see if there’s chemistry, and maybe meet for drinks.

READ READ READ. SINGLE MEN OR WOMEN,DO NOT DM. WE ARE ONLY LOOKING FOR COUPLES

Hey Reddit,

We're a 37M / 31F married couple in the Modesto, CA / 209 area. We're fairly new to the lifestyle and looking to meet another attractive, clean, chill MF couple for good vibes, friendship, chemistry, and hopefully something long-term if everyone clicks.
We're both fit, clean, respectful, and drama-free.
We're looking for a laid-back couple, ideally ages 25-45, who are easy to talk to, confident, hygienic, and not pushy. We are picky, but in a good way - connection, attraction, and respect matter to us.
Handsome men and nice-looking women are definitely a plus, but personality and vibe are just as important. We're not looking for rushed or awkward energy. We'd rather chat, see if there's chemistry, and possibly build a fun FWB friendship over time.

Please message us with:
Your ages
Your location
A little about your experience level
What you're looking for
A recent couple photo (PG13- with faces, no faces to chat, we will do the same after you send yours)
Your boundaries and comfort level
Whether you're open to meeting for drinks first Clean, respectful, real couples only. No pressure, no drama, no weird energy. Just looking for another fun couple we can actually vibe with.

Hey Reddit,
We're a 37M / 31F married couple in the Modesto, CA / 209 area. We're fairly new to the lifestyle and looking to meet another attractive, clean, chill MF couple for good vibes, friendship, chemistry, and hopefully something long-term if everyone clicks.
We're both fit, clean, respectful, and drama-free.
We're looking for a laid-back couple, ideally ages 25-45, who are easy to talk to, confident, hygienic, and not pushy. We are picky, but in a good way - connection, attraction, and respect matter to us.
Handsome men and nice-looking women are definitely a plus, but personality and vibe are just as important. We're not looking for rushed or awkward energy. We'd rather chat, see if there's chemistry, and possibly build a fun FWB friendship over time.
Please message us with:
Your ages
Your location
A little about your experience level
What you're looking for
A recent couple photo (PG13- with faces, no faces to chat, we will do the same after you send yours)
Your boundaries and comfort level
Whether you're open to meeting for drinks first Clean, respectful, real couples only. No pressure, no drama, no weird energy. Just looking for another fun couple we can actually vibe with.

Special thanks to the Moderator for catching us via her asshole!!! Real good work.

Hey Reddit,
We’re a 37M / 31F married couple in the Modesto, CA / 209 area. We’re fairly new to the lifestyle and looking to meet another attractive, clean, chill MF couple for good vibes, friendship, chemistry, and hopefully something long-term if everyone clicks.
We’re both fit, clean, respectful, and drama-free. We’re looking for a laid-back couple, ideally ages 25–45, who are easy to talk to, confident, hygienic, and not pushy. We are picky, but in a good way — connection, attraction, and respect matter to us.
Handsome men and nice-looking women are definitely a plus, but personality and vibe are just as important. We’re not looking for rushed or awkward energy. We’d rather chat, see if there’s chemistry, and possibly build a fun FWB friendship over time.
Please message us with:

Your ages
Your location
A little about your experience level
What you’re looking for
A recent couple photo (PG13- with faces, no faces to chat, we will do the same after you send yours)
Your boundaries and comfort level
Whether you’re open to meeting for drinks first
Clean, respectful, real couples only. No pressure, no drama, no weird energy. Just looking for another fun couple we can actually vibe with.

We are a fit 37M and 31F local 209 area. Looking to find people around us that are like minded, and have a long term fwb.
If you are a couple between 25-45. DM me.

We are a fit 37M and 31F local 209 area. Looking to find people around us that are like minded, and have a long term fwb.
If you are a couple between 25-45. DM me.