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[37/32][MF4MF][California, Central Valley] NO SINGLE MEN.

We are real people, active in this lifestyle, looking for another hot and fit couple.
Our process:

Please send a message, where are you from, age, and once I accept it please send FACE pictures, not nude. Because attraction is important to us, we have to have chemistry.

Then we both need to get verified, so we don’t be stuck talking to fake people, and we will verify too so you feel the same.

Then we meet for a beer or coffee so we know each other.

We ONLY do same room full swap with condoms and testing before. Any other style we are not interested.

We are looking for long term friendship. Not one night stand.

Please don’t waste our time, if you stop responding I’ll just move on…..

Lets not over complicate FUN

u/RelationshipClarity- — 16 hours ago
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[MF4MF] [NorCal] Full Swap with Condoms

PSA: IF YOU ARE A SINGLE MAN AND YOU REACH OUT, I WONT ANSWER, BUT I WILL BLOCK YOU FOR SURE. IDC IF YOU ARE 12” .

Simple.

We’re easy going and wanna have fun, if you’re in NorCal and wanna bang, send a message.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 4 days ago

Can we please clean up r/209swing so actual local swingers can use it?

At this point, the entire sub feels like nonstop advertising for the same “private” website instead of an actual 209 swinging community.

There are real couples in this area looking to meet other real couples, but genuine posts get buried under repetitive promotional posts. It makes the subreddit look inactive or fake when the problem is really that it’s being overwhelmed by advertising.

Can the admins please clean this up and put some limits on promotional posts so the subreddit can actually become useful for the local community again?

If you’re a real 209-area couple/person and feel the same way, speak up. Maybe if enough people say something, this can become an actual local swingers subreddit again instead of an advertising feed.

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u/RelationshipClarity- — 5 days ago

[37/32] [MF4MF] [Modesto CA] Looking for the couple who makes us delete this post 37M/32F | Modesto/ NorCal

We’re a married couple who are genuinely obsessed with each other, have a great sex life, and want to find another couple who brings the same energy.

We’re not looking to collect messages or spend three weeks exchanging “hey, what are you into?” texts. We want attraction, personality, playful conversation, and the kind of chemistry where drinks turn into lingering eye contact and everyone already knows where the night is heading.
We’re looking for an attractive, confident MF couple who are into each other, emotionally secure, respectful, and capable of having fun without making things weird afterward. We care about looks, but we also care about how you carry yourselves, whether you can flirt, laugh, communicate, and make both of us feel wanted

• Couples only—please do not message us pretending your wife is “interested”
• Both straight, same-room play
• Condoms required
• Drug-free and non-smokers
• Recent pictures and honest information
• No pressure and no expectations after meeting
We’re in the Modesto/209 area and willing to travel or meet halfway for the right couple. Our preference is to meet for drinks first, see whether the attraction is real, and let the evening develop naturally.

Ultimately, we would love to find one fun, trustworthy couple we can build an ongoing connection with—not restart from zero every weekend.

Send us your ages, location, a recent couple picture, and something more interesting than “hey.” We’ll exchange clear face pictures privately once everyone feels comfortable.
Make us excited that we posted this.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 8 days ago

[MF4MF] Looking for the couple who makes us delete this post 37M/31F | Modesto/ NorCal

[MF4MF] Looking for the couple who makes us delete this post 37M/31F | Modesto/ NorCal

We’re a married couple who are genuinely obsessed with each other, have a great sex life, and want to find another couple who brings the same energy.

We’re not looking to collect messages or spend three weeks exchanging “hey, what are you into?” texts. We want attraction, personality, playful conversation, and the kind of chemistry where drinks turn into lingering eye contact and everyone already knows where the night is heading.
We’re looking for an attractive, confident MF couple who are into each other, emotionally secure, clean, respectful, and capable of having fun without making things weird afterward. We care about looks, but we also care about how you carry yourselves, whether you can flirt, laugh, communicate, and make both of us feel wanted

We’re new to playing with another couple, but this isn’t an impulsive decision. We’ve talked through our boundaries and know exactly what we’re comfortable with:
• Couples only—please do not message us pretending your wife is “interested”
• Both straight, same-room play
• Condoms required
• Drug-free and non-smokers
• Recent pictures and honest information
• No pressure and no expectations after meeting
We’re in the Modesto/209 area and willing to travel or meet halfway for the right couple. Our preference is to meet for drinks first, see whether the attraction is real, and let the evening develop naturally.

Ultimately, we would love to find one fun, trustworthy couple we can build an ongoing connection with—not restart from zero every weekend.

Send us your ages, location, a recent couple picture, and something more interesting than “hey.” We’ll exchange clear face pictures privately once everyone feels comfortable.
Make us excited that we posted this.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 8 days ago
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[MF4MF] real people, real swinger, busy lives, sane room full swap, PLEASE READ THE POST.

We’re a married couple who are genuinely obsessed with each other, have a great sex life, and want to find another couple who brings the same energy.

We’re not looking to collect messages or spend three weeks exchanging “hey, what are you into?” texts.

We want attraction, personality, playful conversation, and the kind of chemistry where drinks turn into lingering eye contact and everyone already knows where the night is heading.

We’re looking for an attractive, confident MF couple who are into each other, emotionally secure, clean, respectful. We care about looks, but we also care about how you carry yourselves, whether you can flirt, laugh, communicate, and make both of us feel wanted

We are experienced, we only do same room full swap with condoms.

• Couples only
• same-room play
• Condoms required
• Drug-free and non-smokers is preferred.
• Recent pictures and honest information
• No pressure and no expectations after meeting
We’re in the Modesto/209 area and willing to travel or meet halfway for the right couple. Our preference is to meet for drinks first, see whether the attraction is real, and let the evening develop naturally.

Ultimately, we would love to find one fun, trustworthy couple we can build an ongoing connection with—not restart from zero every weekend.

Send us your ages, location, a recent couple picture, and something more interesting than “hey.” We’ll exchange clear face pictures privately once everyone feels comfortable.
Make us excited that we posted this.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 9 days ago
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[MF4MF] Looking for the couple who makes us delete this post 37M/31F | Modesto/ NorCal

We’re a married couple who are genuinely obsessed with each other, have a great sex life, and want to find another couple who brings the same energy.

We’re not looking to collect messages or spend three weeks exchanging “hey, what are you into?” texts. We want attraction, personality, playful conversation, and the kind of chemistry where drinks turn into lingering eye contact and everyone already knows where the night is heading.
We’re looking for an attractive, confident MF couple who are into each other, emotionally secure, clean, respectful, and capable of having fun without making things weird afterward. We care about looks, but we also care about how you carry yourselves, whether you can flirt, laugh, communicate, and make both of us feel wanted

We’re new to playing with another couple, but this isn’t an impulsive decision. We’ve talked through our boundaries and know exactly what we’re comfortable with:
• Couples only—please do not message us pretending your wife is “interested”
• Both straight, same-room play
• Condoms required
• Drug-free and non-smokers
• Recent pictures and honest information
• No pressure and no expectations after meeting
We’re in the Modesto/209 area and willing to travel or meet halfway for the right couple. Our preference is to meet for drinks first, see whether the attraction is real, and let the evening develop naturally.

Ultimately, we would love to find one fun, trustworthy couple we can build an ongoing connection with—not restart from zero every weekend.

Send us your ages, location, a recent couple picture, and something more interesting than “hey.” We’ll exchange clear face pictures privately once everyone feels comfortable.
Make us excited that we posted this.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 22 days ago
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[MF4MF] Looking for the couple who makes us delete this post 37M/31F | Modesto/NorCal

We’re a married couple who are genuinely obsessed with each other, have a great sex life, and want to find another couple who brings the same energy.

We’re not looking to collect messages or spend three weeks exchanging “hey, what are you into?” texts. We want attraction, personality, playful conversation, and the kind of chemistry where drinks turn into lingering eye contact and everyone already knows where the night is heading.
We’re looking for an attractive, confident MF couple who are into each other, emotionally secure, clean, respectful, and capable of having fun without making things weird afterward. We care about looks, but we also care about how you carry yourselves, whether you can flirt, laugh, communicate, and make both of us feel wanted

We’re new to playing with another couple, but this isn’t an impulsive decision. We’ve talked through our boundaries and know exactly what we’re comfortable with:
• Couples only—please do not message us pretending your wife is “interested”
• Both straight, same-room play
• Condoms required
• Drug-free and non-smokers
• Recent pictures and honest information
• No pressure and no expectations after meeting
We’re in the Modesto/209 area and willing to travel or meet halfway for the right couple. Our preference is to meet for drinks first, see whether the attraction is real, and let the evening develop naturally.

Ultimately, we would love to find one fun, trustworthy couple we can build an ongoing connection with—not restart from zero every weekend.

Send us your ages, location, a recent couple picture, and something more interesting than “hey.” We’ll exchange clear face pictures privately once everyone feels comfortable.
Make us excited that we posted this.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 26 days ago
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[MF4MF] Let’s have some fun

Married couple in the Modesto / 209 area looking to meet another attractive, respectful, easygoing MF couple.

We’re fit, clean, drug-free, non-smokers, drama-free, and big on good energy, chemistry, comfort, and communication. Ideally, we’d like to meet a couple we can actually connect with, laugh with, grab drinks or coffee first, and see if the vibe is there naturally.

We’re not really into endless back-and-forth messaging. It has burned us before with conversations that go nowhere, and we’re busy with life, work, and a young kid, so availability can be limited sometimes. But when the interest and vibe are real, we’re always open to meeting halfway for a beer or coffee, especially if you’re a little farther from us.

Looking within about 100 miles max.

We’re not looking for a one-and-done. We’d rather build something fun, comfortable, and ongoing with the right couple, repeat clients preferred lol.

Outside of this, we like being active, hiking, tennis, camping, gym, good food, drinks, and just enjoying good company.

For boundaries: same-room play only, condoms are a must for vaginal, and neither of us is bi. We’re not into pressure, awkward energy, or messy situations. Attraction matters, but personality, respect, and chemistry matter just as much.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 1 month ago
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[MF4MF] Central Valley, 209 Area. Modesto. Turlock, Merced, Lodi, Tracy, Livermore, Stockton,Manteca

CALIFORNIA

SINGLE MEN WILL BE BLOCKED WITHOUT A RESPONSE.

We’re looking for a fun relaxed couples to enjoy life with, we’re looking for something very simple. If you are fit, clean and respectful couple mid age, wanna have some fun. DM us.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 2 months ago
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Can someone share input? Looking for some advice from actual swingers.

Me and my partner decided for a while now to start swinging. We live in Modesto CA, and we have busy life so we don’t want to travel far for a play date.

But it’s been very difficult, lots of scammers, lots of people that we start talking to, then they randomly stop talking. I understand if they’re not attracted, but that’s not it, they get attracted then after a while of chatting they stop….. then there’s the interested people, that trying to arrange a meet with them is an act of congress.

I’m kinda vetting. But mostly asking for an advice to succeed. If you made it that far in the post and you’re willing to advise us, check out my profile, give us critique, any feedback, heck could be the way we’re wring the post, the angle of her pussy lol, I did try other platforms they’re worse, not to mention Modesto is just not the place to be if you wanna swing. I wish I was a SF local lol

Anyway, let it rip.

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u/RelationshipClarity- — 2 months ago
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[MF4MF] 209 - Modesto - Turlock - Ceres - Manteca - long term FWB

We’re a real married couple, 37M and 31F, in the Modesto / 209 area, hoping to meet another real MF couple who is attractive, respectful, easygoing, and actually wants a connection, not just a random one-night awkward meet.
We’re both fit, clean, normal, drama-free, and big on comfort, communication, hygiene, and mutual attraction. We’re not trying to rush anything. The ideal vibe for us is: chat a little, verify we’re all real, exchange recent PG-13 couple photos, meet for drinks somewhere normal, laugh, see if the chemistry is there, and let it build naturally.
We’re looking for a couple that wants something fun, respectful, and possibly ongoing if everyone clicks. Friendship matters to us. Personality matters. Good energy matters. Attraction matters too, but we’re not looking for pushy, messy, secretive, or uncomfortable situations.
Couples around 25-45 would be ideal. Local or close enough to the 209 area is preferred.
When you message, please include:
Ages
Location
What you’re looking for
Experience level
Comfort level / boundaries
A recent PG-13 couple photo
We’ll gladly do the same once we know we’re talking to a real couple.
Important: MF couples only. Single men, please do not message us. We keep getting messages from single males even though the post clearly says couple. If you message anyway, we won’t respond, we’ll just block.
Clean, respectful, real couples only. If you’re genuine, easy to talk to, and looking for drinks first with no pressure, say hi.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 2 months ago
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Modesto / 209 [MF4MF] Respectful married couple seeking real connection with another couple

Hey Reddit,
We’re a married couple, 37M and 31F, located in the Modesto / 209 area. We’re looking to meet another attractive, respectful, easygoing MF couple for good conversation, chemistry, friendship, and possibly something ongoing if the vibe is right.
We’re both fit, clean, respectful, drama-free, and big on comfort, communication, and mutual attraction. We’re not looking to rush anything or force a connection. Ideally, we’d like to find a couple we can actually enjoy talking to, laugh with, meet for drinks first, and build a fun FWB-style friendship naturally over time.
We’re interested in couples who are laid-back, confident, hygienic, and respectful of boundaries. Attraction matters to us, but personality, chemistry, and good energy matter just as much. We’re not into pushy people, awkward pressure, or messy situations.
Ideally looking for couples around 25–45, local or close enough to the 209 area, who are open-minded, real, and know how to communicate clearly.
Please message us with your ages, location, what you’re looking for, your experience level, comfort level, and a recent PG-13 couple photo. We’ll gladly do the same once we know we’re talking to a real couple.
Clean, respectful, fun couples only. Let’s chat, see if there’s chemistry, and maybe meet for drinks.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 2 months ago
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Modesto / 209 - Fit 37M & 31F couple looking for MF4MF friends + chemistry

READ READ READ. SINGLE MEN OR WOMEN,DO NOT DM. WE ARE ONLY LOOKING FOR COUPLES

Hey Reddit,

We're a 37M / 31F married couple in the Modesto, CA / 209 area. We're fairly new to the lifestyle and looking to meet another attractive, clean, chill MF couple for good vibes, friendship, chemistry, and hopefully something long-term if everyone clicks.
We're both fit, clean, respectful, and drama-free.
We're looking for a laid-back couple, ideally ages 25-45, who are easy to talk to, confident, hygienic, and not pushy. We are picky, but in a good way - connection, attraction, and respect matter to us.
Handsome men and nice-looking women are definitely a plus, but personality and vibe are just as important. We're not looking for rushed or awkward energy. We'd rather chat, see if there's chemistry, and possibly build a fun FWB friendship over time.

Please message us with:
Your ages
Your location
A little about your experience level
What you're looking for
A recent couple photo (PG13- with faces, no faces to chat, we will do the same after you send yours)
Your boundaries and comfort level
Whether you're open to meeting for drinks first Clean, respectful, real couples only. No pressure, no drama, no weird energy. Just looking for another fun couple we can actually vibe with.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 3 months ago

Modesto / 209 - Fit 37M & 31F couple looking for MF4MF friends + chemistry

Hey Reddit,
We're a 37M / 31F married couple in the Modesto, CA / 209 area. We're fairly new to the lifestyle and looking to meet another attractive, clean, chill MF couple for good vibes, friendship, chemistry, and hopefully something long-term if everyone clicks.
We're both fit, clean, respectful, and drama-free.
We're looking for a laid-back couple, ideally ages 25-45, who are easy to talk to, confident, hygienic, and not pushy. We are picky, but in a good way - connection, attraction, and respect matter to us.
Handsome men and nice-looking women are definitely a plus, but personality and vibe are just as important. We're not looking for rushed or awkward energy. We'd rather chat, see if there's chemistry, and possibly build a fun FWB friendship over time.
Please message us with:
Your ages
Your location
A little about your experience level
What you're looking for
A recent couple photo (PG13- with faces, no faces to chat, we will do the same after you send yours)
Your boundaries and comfort level
Whether you're open to meeting for drinks first Clean, respectful, real couples only. No pressure, no drama, no weird energy. Just looking for another fun couple we can actually vibe with.

Special thanks to the Moderator for catching us via her asshole!!! Real good work.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 3 months ago
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Modesto / 209 — Fit 37M & 31F couple looking for MF4MF friends + chemistry

Hey Reddit,
We’re a 37M / 31F married couple in the Modesto, CA / 209 area. We’re fairly new to the lifestyle and looking to meet another attractive, clean, chill MF couple for good vibes, friendship, chemistry, and hopefully something long-term if everyone clicks.
We’re both fit, clean, respectful, and drama-free. We’re looking for a laid-back couple, ideally ages 25–45, who are easy to talk to, confident, hygienic, and not pushy. We are picky, but in a good way — connection, attraction, and respect matter to us.
Handsome men and nice-looking women are definitely a plus, but personality and vibe are just as important. We’re not looking for rushed or awkward energy. We’d rather chat, see if there’s chemistry, and possibly build a fun FWB friendship over time.
Please message us with:

Your ages
Your location
A little about your experience level
What you’re looking for
A recent couple photo (PG13- with faces, no faces to chat, we will do the same after you send yours)
Your boundaries and comfort level
Whether you’re open to meeting for drinks first
Clean, respectful, real couples only. No pressure, no drama, no weird energy. Just looking for another fun couple we can actually vibe with.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 3 months ago
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MF4MF local 209 looking for a full swap -swingers

We are a fit 37M and 31F local 209 area. Looking to find people around us that are like minded, and have a long term fwb.
If you are a couple between 25-45. DM me.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 3 months ago
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MF4MF local 209 looking for swap

We are a fit 37M and 31F local 209 area. Looking to find people around us that are like minded, and have a long term fwb.
If you are a couple between 25-45. DM me.

u/RelationshipClarity- — 3 months ago

REAL 209 residents only

Dude, can we tune down the scamming a bit!!!

Are there any actual couple MF4MF that lives in the 209? Or is it all scam here? Just so I know cuz I’m about to leave this page.

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u/RelationshipClarity- — 3 months ago
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Everyone and their mothers are selling their OF here and not in it for the fun 😩

I’m just frustrated, I’m new to Reddit and to this life style, but man it’s frustrating. I am NOT against selling content, but maaaaan. Nothing is real!!! Just trying to find a hotwife so me and MY wife can have some fun. But commercializing everything is just frustrating.

Any of you all know about a page in Reddit that is not raided with content sellers? NorCal. Me 37 and my wife 31 normal people fit and clean just trying so hard to get into this life style of swinging, but it’s becoming such a chore to find some real people. And then you find someone, you think you did, then it’s all like give me your insta, your FB, get my social while you’re at it. Bro I am not hiding it from my wife she wants some dick too, (besides mine she warships it lol) but dude discreet is still a thing !!!! Like can we chill !!!!

Sorry, frustrated, and tired of scanning all these posts. Ughh

Love all the real people out there, content sellers, I don’t hate you, I love all forms of porns, but I feel like you guys are kinda tricking us, buuut I get it, it’s a strategy lol.

I’m out !!!!

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u/RelationshipClarity- — 3 months ago