u/RemarkableConcept750

Throwaway because I don’t want this tied to my main.

I (20M) have been with my girlfriend (23F) for almost two years. Last night something happened that I can’t stop replaying in my head. We were together, and I made it clear I wasn’t comfortable on doing it last night .. I said no, I pulled away, I tried to set boundaries. She didn’t listen. She pushed ahead anyway, disregarding everything I said.

I felt trapped.. She decided what was going to happen, and I had no say. I froze, and afterward I just felt hollow.

I don’t even know how to process this. I trusted her, and she broke that trust in the most personal way. I feel violated, and I don’t know if I’ll ever feel safe with her again.