My wife wants a bull who loves the dynamics involved with cuckolding. This isn't just sex for her. It's the mind fuck, the angst, the power exchange, the symbolism, the hierarchy. It's impossible to explain to most guys. We've been swingers for awhile but it's way more and can't find a guy who gets it. One who goes out with us, who makes us face the dynamic outside the bedroom.
My wife and I fantasize about a dominant alpha type man stepping into our relationship. She loves the idea of him taking control of me. Where I don't get my way and she's like his little princess. She wants him to mentally mess with my ego along with physically accomplish this. Things like taking my ring off, me being a third wheel, him spanking me. She wants him to love that dynamic not just being about fucking.
We’re looking for more than just a physical experience. The dynamic matters most to us — the mindset, the energy, the hierarchy, and the understanding of what makes this work for all involved.
She wants to feel desired, a bit like a princess and a little naughty. He typically is leading, controlling, and making decisions, including in the relationship, and part of this for us is seeing someone naturally step into a stronger presence that changes that balance in the right way.
This isn’t about “wham bam” or someone simply claiming they can dominate. We’re looking for a confident, emotionally intelligent man who genuinely understands the psychology and connection behind the dynamic.
If you message us, don’t just tell us you’re the right guy — show us you actually understand what we’re describing.
Our previous posts seemed to leave some ambiguity in what we are really looking for.
We are looking for what seems to be a unique gentleman to join us. The guy we are looking for doesn’t have to be experienced with couples or cuckolding. We do need a guy who wants that dynamic however. We absolutely need a guy who can step in and make her feel swept off her feet by his power and assertiveness, not just over her but over us. She wants to see you make sure I don’t get my way and to ACTUALLY ENJOY doing that to us. Finding a guy that gets this aspect seems to be impossible.
Couple here that’s played around the fringes of cuckolding. We’d like to dive much further down that path. We really need the right guy. This wouldn’t be a one time thing and need the guy to like the dynamic. The dynamic is n ways more erotic to us than the sex.
Couple here that’s played around the fringes of cuckolding. We’d like to dive much further down that path. We really need the right guy. This wouldn’t be a one time thing and need the guy to like the dynamic. The dynamic is n ways more erotic to us than the sex.
We are looking for a longer term dynamic with a third. We’d like to explore a dominant man stepping into our relationship. This isn’t just sex, it’s a whole dynamic. If you understand can you reach out to us? Please don’t just say… hey.
We had a neighbor start us down this path and now we’d like to explore more. Our neighbor was 54 and we can’t stop thinking about what could have been. He joked about needing a date to his work Xmas party. Later that night we talked about it and found the idea erotic. Long story short, she went as his date! We’d will put more details in a reply below
Wed like the same dynamic he started but much more.
We are looking for a guy in his late 40s through 60s who’s interested in a whole dynamic. Our fantasy is to have a mentor/alpha male who likes the idea of guiding a couple through cuckolding.