46 M4F Dead Bedroom…you too?
It has come to this. I am in a relationship and my partner of many years no longer has any desire for any form of intimacy. We have had sex 8 times in the last three years and a few those felt so shitty because I can tell she was doing it but definitely not into it.
We tried therapy on our own, as a couple. We have seen doctors and tried medication, to no avail.
Other than the dead bedroom, our relationship is great. She is a great mom and partner, I don’t want to separate from her and, I really can’t. We have three kids, two of which have serious issues and their psychologists told me that separation right now could derail years of progress and I won’t do that to them.
Sure, I miss having sex but it is more that that. I miss flirting, I miss sexy texts, I miss spontaneity, I miss cuddling, I miss it all so much.
I don’t really know what I am trying to find at this point or how far I would be willing to take things.
Any women in the same situation.
Anyone want to chat?