Not necessarily “red flags” or horrible behavior, sometimes it’s just little things that completely kill attraction for you.
Could be personality traits, how they talk to people, being overly sexual too quickly, acting fake or attention-seeking, anything
I’m curious what immediately turns you away.
You know the type: Making you feel unique, important, wanted, different from everyone else…
Then later you realize they say the same things, give the same attention, and act the same way with multiple people.
That kind of thing can honestly hurt a lot more than people admit.
Have you ever experienced that?
How did it affect the way you view relationships or trust people now?
Would you ever be in an open relationship or a poly relationship?
Why or why not?
Personally, I’m not really a fan of open/poly relationships myself. I prefer exclusivity and a more one on one connection. But I know other people feel differently, so I’m curious where everyone stands.
Both have their charm, honestly.
Shy can be really cute, awkward, and endearing
Confident can be bold, playful, and magnetic
Which do you usually find yourself drawn to more, or does it depend?
Girls/women especially, I’d love to hear your take