42 [M4F] #PacHeights - Cuddle buddy wanted!
A cold and foggy Memorial Day weekend seems perfect for cuddling. I'm a big fan of pulling someone close, finding new ways to melt closer together, and getting lost in affectionate expression. Are you an existing fan of cuddling or curious to explore your affectionate side? Let's swing up the armrest in a movie theater, watch a movie at home, or get lost in conversation while finding our favorite positions. A mix of recognizing your cuddle potential while easing into things at a pace that feels comfortable.
I'm 42, single, straight, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. 6' tall if you're sizing up spooning compatibility and the type of wingspan that might wrap you up in his arms. Our paths may have already crossed as I bike around the city exploring pop-up bakeries (calorie neutral?), slightly outside of your glance at one of the cute puppies I train for a local non-profit, peering up from a good cup of coffee near my professional job downtown, or passing on a trail as I hike in a nearby forest.
I realize not everyone is affectionately expressive, causing me to seek out people who recharge and relax through touch. Your inner cuddler might feel dormant or under-appreciated and need some time to fully express herself and realize her full potential. I'm looking for multiple cuddle sessions if things go well, hopefully expanding your comfort level and expressiveness with additional exposure to cuddle possibilities and the existence of a capable cuddle partner. There's no need to hold back your affectionate side out of concerns of coming off as too clingy and no push or escalations towards sex.
A good cuddle match:
- Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene.
- Is curious to discover the full affectionate creature stirring within her, expressive and unconstrained.
- Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite ways of being held or affectionate expression.
- Is a generally easy-going person.
I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.
I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!