The thing I love about kink is how free flowing it is

Besides the need for enthusiastic consent, there really is no rigidity to structure in how people preform kink in their daily life. Is the sub a better cook? Well they’re a personal chef feeding their dom(me) while they relax! Is the Dom(me) a better cook? Well they’re a good owner making sure their property is healthy.

Driving? Sub can be a chauffeur, or the dom(me) could be “the adult” or “human” driving their sub around, giving the sub no control of where they’re going

Sick? A good boy should happily wait hand and foot on their Dom(me) and tend to all their needs. A Dom(me) can be standing over them, making sure they take their meds and enjoy how needy their sub is.

Of course not all these apply to every relationship, and not everyone is 24/7 or could just take a break from the dynamic. These were more or less just some wandering thoughts I had about how diverse and adaptable the lifestyle can be

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u/Scampers001 — 1 month ago

Alt sub spaces

So there’s always the typical ways that subs can enter sub space, but what are some other, more unique ways you’ve found yourself entering sub space?

For me, I always feel it at some point at the gym. Whenever I have a pump going, I can’t help but smile, less for my own ego, but more at the idea of giving my Domme more of me to play around with. Knowing that a simple gesture, look, or command from her will bring this muscle pup down on his knees for her

Another, weirder one that happened by accident, was when I was looking up ways to clean up grout in shower/bath tiles. I sent myself on a cleaning rabbit hole. What vaccums to use, how to wash bath mats, proper fitted sheet folding, and found myself day dreaming of living together (we’re currently in an LDR) and being in an outfit, cleaning the house while she relaxes with video games or her various art projects

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u/Scampers001 — 1 month ago