u/Secret-Bee-1162

30 [F4M] wanted: an FWB

Hello! Here to look for an FWB. :)

Genuinely looking to meet a guy who’s down for both friendship and sex. And just to be clear: I’m not looking for a FUBU. What I want is an actual FWB ~ someone I can hang out with, go on food trips and adventures with, be vulnerable with, yap with, nap with lol, and genuinely enjoy spending time even outside the bedroom. :)

A little about me:
30F, residing/working in Taguig.
Single for over a year now.
161cm, on the chubbier side.
Pretty active (when I’m not working out at home, I’m usually playing badminton or trying out indoor cycling, boxing, dancing, etc.) Not [yet] fit or in my best shape, but have been working toward my goal weight and have already lost a few kilos since I started in July hehe.
I wear glasses, have medium-length hair, and I’d say I’m decently average-looking. Not a hottie/baddie, but pwede nang cute I think. 😂
An introvert, but I’ve got a bubbly personality once I’m comfortable with you. Saktong yapper lang. :>
Into journaling, reading, exploring new food spots (especially if Tatler-approved 👀), watching musicals/theatre plays, curating playlists, and generally finding little things to be excited about.

As a friend:
I’m kind, sweet, empathetic, and a good listener. I’m also genuinely curious, so I promise there won’t be a shortage of things to talk about. I’m reliable, dependable, and someone you can trust.

In the bedroom:
I may look innocent/mukhang mabait, but I've been told I’m much wilder than I look 😂 I’m very much a giver, and I genuinely enjoy making sure the other person is having a good time too.

You, hopefully:
In your 30s, ideally 30–35
SINGLE.
Taller than me
No particular body preference, but a plus if you’re cuddly haha
Working, with a life and hobbies outside of work
Decently good-looking and respectful of boundaries
A nerd 🤓
Can host and/or drive, preferably near me
Values aftercare
Understands what I’m actually looking for

Please don’t message me if:
My being chubby is a dealbreaker for you
You’re too far from me and can’t host 😔 I want this to be reasonably convenient for both of us
You don’t understand the difference between FUBU and FWB
You’re looking for something that’s purely sexual with zero friendship/connection

Low-effort messages and “hi” with nothing else will be ignored. Send an intro, tell me what caught your attention, and let’s see if we vibe. :)

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u/Secret-Bee-1162 — 6 days ago

30 [F4M] here to look for an FWB

The rainy weather makes me want to watch a horror film and then share an intimate night with someone :> Haha hello! Here to look for an FWB.

Genuinely looking to meet a guy who’s down for both friendship and sex. And just to be clear: I’m not looking for a FUBU. What I want is an actual FWB ~ someone I can hang out with, go on food trips and adventures with, be vulnerable with, yap with, nap with lol, and genuinely enjoy spending time even outside the bedroom. :)

A little about me:
30F, residing/working in Taguig.
Single for over a year now.
161cm, on the chubbier side.
Pretty active (when I’m not working out at home, I’m usually playing badminton or trying out indoor cycling, boxing, dancing, etc. Not [yet] fit or in my best shape, but I’m working toward my goal weight and have already lost a few kilos since I started in July hehe.
I wear glasses, have medium-length hair, and I’d say I’m decently average-looking. Not a hottie/baddie, but pwede nang cute I think. 😂
An introvert, but I’ve got a pretty bubbly personality once I’m comfortable with you. Saktong yapper lang. :>
Into journaling, reading, exploring new food spots (especially if Tatler-approved 👀), watching musicals/theatre plays, curating playlists, and generally finding little things to be excited about.

As a friend: I’m kind, sweet, empathetic, and a good listener. I’m also genuinely curious, so I promise there won’t be a shortage of things to talk about. I’m reliable, dependable, and someone you can trust.

In the bedroom: I may look innocent/mukhang mabait, but don’t let that fool you. I’ve been told I’m much wilder than I look. 😏 I’m very much a giver, and I genuinely enjoy making sure the other person is having a good time too.

You, hopefully:
In your 30s, ideally 30–35
SINGLE.
Taller than me
No particular body preference, but a plus if you’re cuddly haha
Working, with a life and hobbies outside of work
Decently good-looking and respectful of boundaries
A nerd 🤓
Can host and/or drive
Values aftercare
Understands what I’m actually looking for

Please don’t message me if:
My being chubby is a dealbreaker for you
You’re too far from me and can’t host 😔 I want this to be reasonably convenient for both of us
You don’t understand the difference between FUBU and FWB
You’re looking for something that’s purely sexual with zero friendship/connection

Low-effort messages and “hi” with nothing else will be ignored. Send an intro, tell me what caught your attention, and let’s see if we vibe. :)

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u/Secret-Bee-1162 — 9 days ago

30 [F4M] share our burdens?

Bigat ng life lately. Struggling in a lot of areas in my life, and carrying a very heavy grief. Sobrang nag-resonate sakin yung line na 'to from one of Noah Kahan's song:

And it's gone to shit without you
It was shit before, but at least I had you

Miss ko na having someone to share life with. Kung iko-compare ko yung previous years before grief found me, I'd say ang hirap din. Dami ring struggles, but the difference is I had someone. A safe space, someone I can run to. Someone to share both the pain and the joy with hehe. Parang mas feel ko yung hirap ng buhay ngayon na wala na akong ganung someone.

Anyway, super drama :) been single for a little over a year now. Di ko sure kung dapat bang friends or dating yung flair ng post ko na 'to 😄 I do want to meet someone new, and I think the foundation of love is a solid friendship din talaga.

A little about me: 5'2" • on the chubbier side of things • reads and journals a lot • a hobby hopper hehe (always trying new things - lately it's been badminton, cooking, and dance classes lol) • kind & empathetic • residing near BGC

If you're also in the same boat - going through something similar or dealing with grief - let me know. I'm open to such conversations. Match my intro nalang ☺️

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u/Secret-Bee-1162 — 22 days ago

30 [F4M] somebody se(date) me lmao 😂

I'm soooo done.

After my long-term relationship ended last year, sobrang miss ko yung feeling of having someone, but I also knew I wasn’t ready for another commitment. So naturally… napadpad ako sa mundo ng casual setups/situationships. Haaays.

One turned into an actual friend. A few ghosted me 🤣 No regrets naman. Looking back, grabe yung character development. I learned how to self-soothe, became more comfortable being alone. Figured out what I actually want, what I can tolerate, and what I absolutely won’t settle for anymore.

I still enjoy meeting new people, though. And honestly, I just want to build genuine connections again. Solitude can be sweet, but sometimes I find myself wishing I have someone to hang out with.

About me:
30F
Single for a little over a year
Working in banking, so medyo unholy ang work hours ko 😂
Furmom to two dogs
Conversational
Chronically curious
Hobby hopper. Every few months may bago akong obsession. HAHAHA.
Average-looking. Hindi po ako baddie. 🫩
I don’t believe in playing hard to get, acting cold, or pretending to be mysterious just to “challenge” someone. If we meet, what you see is exactly who I am.

About you:
Single
Around 30–35
Respectful of boundaries
Decent gentleman, friendly, and empathetic
Has hobbies and a life outside of work
Values time and connection

Let's chat! Send me an intro 🙂‍↕️

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u/Secret-Bee-1162 — 1 month ago

30 [F4M] let's watch Backrooms!

Hi! Hanap me kasama manuod :) Gonna watch Backrooms in Opus tomorrow night.

Not looking for a date, really just someone to watch with. Would be nice to connect and be friends! After the movie, we can grab drinks and do a movie debrief. Then we call it a night :)

About me:
• 30, 5'2, single, working girlie
• introvert, can get bubbly if your presence & energy is good naman hehe

About you:
• in your 30s, single, working, decent & respectful

SFW hang po :) message meeee :)

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u/Secret-Bee-1162 — 3 months ago