5'11" Biracial male currently looking for a Femme FWB, who is interested in primarily being friends first. Please be relatively fit and submissive. Bonus points if you're 5'9 or shorter.
I currently cannot host, which I hope will change in the near future, so you have to be able to host or be okay with CarPlay.
Howdy! Long time lurker & DMer; first time poster, so excuse the long post. I'm a bit of a yapper.
I am a 27yr Biracial cis male looking for a feminine-presenting person interested in being FWBs; with an emphasis on the 'Friends' part of the acronym. While the 'benefits' portion is a fun addition; I really care about being able to connect with someone and being able to properly communicate before I can consider getting in bed with them. Normally I would reach out to other people posting in this sub, but I've haven't really had a genuine pull towards someone that I wanted to be FWBs with and I thought a bit of a change in pace would be nice.
Appearance-wise, I'm 5' 11" with a couple of tattoos and a bunch of hair on my face and body. I have been told I 'look like The Weeknd' a few times in the past, but I don't know if that comparision holds true, especially now. I'm also bit more on the stockier side of body shapes; with a weight of about 180-185lb that I've been slowly working at trimming down to get in shape after a newfound passion has entered my life.
That aside; I could easily describe my personality as a bit of a jokester; making others laugh by committing to a bit even if it comes at my own expense; with a tendency to act as a caretaker for others. Making others laugh and have fun is really what drives me, but I will check in with anyone I see acting abnormally to their usual selves and will pump the breaks if someone is uncomfortable or unsafe. I enjoy anime, video games, TTRPGs, cooking, cleaning, voicing weird scenarios and characters out loud, walking my absolutely adorable Belgian Malinois, and so much more that I want to add and expand upon but I have already edited this post several times to cut down on the word count and I really don't want to do it again.
Sexually; I am a bit light on experience, but have had a couple of encounters to know what I enjoy. I primarily enjoy acting as a 'Gentle Dom', but I have briefly explored and enjoyed other styles of domination too. I have acted as a sub or bottom before, but I have never enjoyed it. Domming just feels natural.
I have several kinks, but I require good communication to be established before I even consider engaging in any of them. Stuff like; DDLG, rope rigging, exhibitionism, feminization of others, acting as a Trainer/Teacher, pain play, and especially CNC need strict rules and clear communication that I will physically sit you down to talk through. I also have some kinks that I really do not engage with, like diapers, inebriation, anything involving biological waste, or has a significant degree to cause harm. I know the last part may seem like I am exaggerating, but I don't want there to be any room for misunderstanding with those things.
That said, I am looking for a feminine-presenting person to share this type of relationship with. So while I have to ask that you are able to share pictures or be willing to meet up somewhere public and safe to verify; you don't have to be entirely 'passing' or have exclusively female genitalia. (I just didn't want to overload the title with [M4F/T/CD/ENBY] and I wasn't sure if [M4Femme] would have been allowed or if it would have gotten my request across properly.)
I do have some wiggle room for anyone androgynous in presentation, but it's a hard stop for anyone masculine seeking to be FWBs. Nothing personal. I am always down to be just friends with almost anyone, though! Just don't be a Republican, ICE supporter, AI shitter, or an Elon apologist. You all can look elsewhere lmao