It’s ok to not be ok
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It’s ok to not be ok

Hey ladies, I know I’ve been a bit absent lately - I’ve been going through a bit of a rough patch both physically and mentally… I just wanted to put some good energy out into the ether and remind you all that no matter how you’re feeling, no matter what you’re going through you’re never alone. Sometimes I need to be reminded of that, and I thought I’d take a moment to remind you of that as well.

I also wanted to give a semi-public thank you to the person here that always keeps me positive. We have a saying we share, “You don’t have to be brave with me.” I hope everyone can find a person that they don’t need to be brave with and can just “be”.

It’s ok to not be ok, and you don’t have to do it alone.

Thank you for listening to my TED talk lol!!

Shay ❤️

u/Shaping_Shay — 2 days ago

Feeling so sexy and elegant in this stunning dress... ;-)

The first two pics are lovely, but the third is better hehe! You have been warned!

u/Shaping_Shay — 16 days ago

Shay the handy-woman at your service!

My neighbor called me this morning because my yard was flooding, I had to call out of work and go fix it. Not sure if I'd rather be digging holes or in project meetings.... Maybe if my project meetings all ended the same way as this.....

u/Shaping_Shay — 21 days ago

u/CoolKayla97's dress has me feeling like a tradwife...

and I'm totally not complaining! Thanks for the loan u/CoolKayla97, I promise I didn't get any ice cream on it!!!

u/Shaping_Shay — 1 month ago

A night out out, and the.....consequenses!

Inspired by seeing some of you lovely ladies at the club I thought I'd join in.... but the end of the night took an unexpected, though not unwelcome turn......

u/Shaping_Shay — 2 months ago

Hi all, sharing a fun night out with u/supertour, u/KimmyHarper, u/badateverything71, u/freya_wana & u/intelligent-pair3230.  What a great looking bunch of girls we are, even if we may or may not have been kicked out of a club for me falling asleep! Sorry! I guess that makes me true to form though hahaha!!! 

Thank you to those that sent through pics, it definitely helped. I hope you all enjoy our shenanigans!

u/Shaping_Shay — 2 months ago
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My little man wanted to feel the sand beneath his paws.. lucky for him this dog mother is a sucker!

u/Shaping_Shay — 2 months ago