u/SissyBecky5

Just a message of thanks and a call for advice or similar stories I guess.

I appealed to this subreddit if going to a Starbucks drive thru in a girly top was sensible and worth it to push myself further. I can say wholeheartedly it was.

Just today I bought tons of panties on sale, colourful lingerie ones, and also bras that fit (in a 34AA lol). The funny thing is instead of being how I used to and focusing on those around me, I was more worried about finding a bra in my size! I have ordered more basic girly tops to wear driving and hopefully further than that. But I genuinely couldn’t have done it without the help and push from the comments on my post.

Im gonna wear more tops and advance my girly wardrobe to drive throughs and eventually into shops. Making sure I’m in a sensible outfit for a girl my age of 19.

Once again I give thanks to you guys. If anyone has any further tips on what I should do to fully accept myself in my own mind as a girly sissy. Please let me know. Or also any stories of how you guys did it.

I now know progressive overload is the key to mental acceptance and desensitisation.

So I made a little post the other day on a subreddit of sissys in my country. It did quite well and got a ton of dms. But more than I’ve ever noticed before everyone was saying…

“I’m straight but you are ___”

Or

“My straight cock thinks you are ___”

I just find it so jarring. Like, number 1 you found me on an lgbtq related subreddit. But number 2 it’s like I know it may be meant as a compliment, but as someone who is questioning if I might be trans, as MANY sissies are, it makes me feel so alienated from being feminine. It does the opposite effect.

Now I know people have different views on both of those, but the main issue I have is that they are texting me privately. What are you trying to prove? That I won’t think you are gay or at least a little?

Especially I point here at the ones who continuously defend their straightness during the conversation. That’s who I really mean in this post. It happens surprisingly much.Like just don’t mention it. Such a turn off for me. I wish most guys would just give a genuine compliment. I always try to reply to those.

Well I’d love to hear some other points of views. Or if anyone else agrees with this or has their own pet peeves. Thanks for reading!

I saw a post in the r/mtf subreddit which basically showed two people watching a conveyor belt of eggs pass them by. They compared all of us in this subreddit to those eggs in that we just haven’t hatched yet.

Now I’m aware that most people here are true blue sissies. It’s a sexual thing. A kink. A private lifestyle choice. However I do see some substance in what the poster was saying. This can be a route for others to other paths. A gateway.

Do you think there are tell tale signs when someone is really just transgender? Or my second question being do you know of any other outcomes that aren’t usually considered.

So, for this Halloween I’ve analysed what girls (and straight guys) wore from last year and decided that if I’m up for it I could debate a princess theme. It’s probably one of the easier way for a man or sissy to go in a feminine costume. So for those of you who are more knowledgeable than me, do any of you have ideas for what princess would be best to go as?

It’s a pretty niche question I know, but it’s just in the off chance that some people know. For context I’m white and slim. Also should add it seems weird to be going out in a ‘princess dress’ but the people I’ve seen wear like a short skirt and a corset top with a wig corresponding to their character.

Thanks for any suggestions! Or even any other costume ideas I could do for my first Halloween (but not first night out) in girls clothes.

So I recently posted here about a prospective trip to Starbucks drive through in a certain girly top I have. I’ll link the post here,

https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyology/s/J2mh23Dau0

I did it!

First off I went to the Asda near me and sat outside in my car waiting. The plan was I’d go in there to buy thongs as a warm up. But before I did. I took off my halfzip to expose myself in the top. Middle of the car park, middle of the day, busiest time of the store.

First thing I noticed was a man in a rusty blue van was staring. Like. STARING. He wouldn’t look away so I knew it was at me. While I was distracted at that, the person in the car next to me had started to walk up to their car from the shop. It was a girl. About 22 if I had to guess. She was really good looking and feminine. She also stared in at me. I avoided eye contact, eventually she drove off. So this meant while I was still on edge, I was getting used to being in the top.

After this I took a wide circle around the van so he couldn’t stare at me anymore as I walked in. I had put my half zip back on at this point, I entered the store, picked up some cute thongs, paid without a care in the world and left. So then came the main event. I took off the halfzip once more and drove over to the Starbucks.

I. Was. Terrified.

Driving past I felt like every car was staring in. Even though they weren’t really. I pulled up to the drive through speaker and ordered a vanilla iced latte (totally recommend), I pulled forward more when there is a window into the interior of the shop where you can sit in. Right there, a big guy made direct eye contact with me. I shrank into myself a bit, but this didn’t last long before I was at the window.

My heart was pounding as I reached the window, it was two young and really attractive women. The one who takes payment and hands out the coffee (not the one on the speaker), was a little alternative and greeted me at first with a glance down at my top but then a huge smile. She talked really brightly and didn’t say much extra. I felt I got spoken to way more like a girl than when I go in boy mode but that’s probably just me overanalysing. I took my coffee, she told me to enjoy my day and I went off. That was it. I felt SO RELIEVED. The coffee was great and I sat and drank it in the top in my car without a single worry about the many cars and people in the car park.

I think exposure therapy is the only way to take this out of privacy and to make it way less secretive in my mind. To realise NO ONE REALLY CARES WHAT YOU WEAR! I’m loving it. I can’t wait to do something next, I’m just not sure what.

Does anyone know a potential next step I can take? I’d love to hear any input. Thank you for reading all this, sorry for how long it was!

So, maybe I’m going a bit ahead of being just a sissy here. But I recently bought this lovely top. Cream, square cut, capped sleeves and lace trim. It’s really nice and i think it suits me a lot for a women’s top. I’m thinking of wearing it to the Starbucks drive through.

This would be my first time being seen in girls clothes past a dare. This Starbucks has a lot of LGBTQ+ workers from what I know, and no one I know works there so I think it’s a good bet. I’m nervous though. I don’t know why. I think it’s because it’s SUCH a feminine top. But not that it’s revealing, or slutty or in any way inappropriate. But how soft, innocent and girly it is. I’ll link it at the bottom.

Would love to hear if anyone could recommend it or give me any tips. I’m self conscious about everything even down to my voice. But I think I have to do this for me.

PS: Do not suggest things that bring any member of the public into kinky stuff. This is solely for my first expression of myself in a more feminine light in an appropriate way.

https://www.reddit.com/u/SissyBecky5/s/UmrmY0d8yF

I’m in the airport right now, when I look across to JD. I decide to push my boundaries, I go in there and look for something cheap, which of course there is none of. I look at the CK thongs then give up. A large male worker comes over so I think of leaving the aisle. But this time, I don’t. I stay there. I even picked up a women’s tank top and tight pink shorts. I realised he’s only here to stock a shelf and probably thinks I’m shopping for my girlfriend. BIG BREAKTHROUGH for me.

However it’s £20 for a single thong which I cannot afford, so I leave. I go to Superdry next door where the clothes are so cute. I browse for a while as the lone female cashier walks around. I finally decide on a top, its cream, with a scoop neck, short sleeves and lace trims. From there I go up, set it on the desk, she scans it, I pay, I ask for a receipt and she tells me to have a nice day.

Just like any other purchase. No drama I thought up in my head. Nothing. I put on the top in the toilets and I’m wearing it under my t shirt now. I feel so proud of myself and comfortable.

Tomorrow I’m gonna go shopping for bralettes and thongs. Does anyone have any similar stories?

I’ve been troubled for quite a while on the issue with my girlfriend. Basically when I get horny I want her and only her. We have good sex. The second though that I go too long without sex with her, usually a week or more straight, I get drawn back here. To the point that when I’m having sex with her I finish to the thought of wearing her clothes and stuff or even that I AM her.

This comes in phases. More and more often as I’ve went on. And I should preface that one look at my profile tells you I’ve been doing this for a LONG time before her. However when I first got with her I thought I was done with all this. For good.

I’ve debated therapy at this point, really starting to think I could be trans. It’s bad though because I do not want to subconsciously build resentment for her from holding me back in a sense from at least trying sex with men, maybe starting hrt, buying women’s clothes etc. I know that’s wrong which is why I can’t emphasise enough SUBCONSCIOUSLY. I’d never cheat too. I keep what I do usually roughly to what she does. So I post photos on my account the same she does in similar clothing (which used to bother me about her until I did it myself), reply to comments briefly thanking them the way she does.

Shes been really good to me. Really good. I have to her aswell but I feel really guilty for my posts on here regardless of what she posts herself. This is my only outlet though for a majorly concealed part of myself.

I’d love to hear any similar experiences with partners as there has to be people who have been through this too or any advice to be given.

Before you let me know how shitty I am like a lot of posts on here get trust me I know it, I just want some help on what to do next.

Just a question,

I’ve heard twitter is huge for sissies, one of our biggest sites, yet I’ve never used it due to concerns that someone I know would find my account.

This is because I feel a degree of safety on Reddit in not being found, but when twitter is so much more popular in everyday life I get worried my account will be suggested to others. I’ve currently set it to not have my contacts or anything, but the fear lies in that an account on there can’t be fully private.

I know that my photos and videos I post will be private. But what’s the point if I can’t have a girly banner, pfp, name and bio?

Was wondering if anyone else has or has not had any problems with where my fears lie. I’d love to hear some input or even some tips!

Thank you x

Generally how long does sissy sex take in comparison to cis male on female sex?

Now before I get those comments I know it varies, I know it’s not the same for everyone. But I’m calling for those varying opinions. Maybe from the more experienced sissies.

Like, sex for me with girls has always been quite short. On average 15 mins max. Does it usually last longer as a sissy? Just because there is the physiological difference in a man fucking an asshole and a vagina. Also keeping in mind it’s a different dynamic entirely.

So I guess I’m just starting a discussion on that, the different experiences of length of sex and maybe which was better or worse? Hopefully this doesn’t get taken the wrong way.

Thanks x

Growing up, I always felt I want to ‘swap bodies’ with family members, friends, girlfriends etc. recently however there’s been a shift.

I no longer want to do that. I want to BUILD that myself. Like, I wanna go to the gym. I want to put on makeup, clothes and go out. I want to take the HRT. I’m not sure if it’s a good thing or a bad thing. But it means this lifestyle is weighing down on me too much to remain a kink. It’s getting stronger and stronger.

So in all, I don’t want an instant female body but I’d rather have my own body feminised. Can anyone else relate?

Does anyone know why this shift may have occurred?