u/SissySlutBobby

I’ve never hooked up with a cis man before, all my experience has been with trans women and crossdressers. I can chat with guys on Grindr, get fully turned on and ready to meet, but as soon as it hits me that it’s a real man, I panic and flake every time.

I actually do care about what the guy looks like, but I really want to get past that. Even if he’s not my ideal type physically, if the cock is what I want, I want to be able to go through with it and finally get fucked by a man.

Has anyone else struggled with this kind of mental block? How did you push through it and actually meet up? Any mindset tricks or tips for making that first step easier would mean a lot.