28M Looking for a Dominant.
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Hey there,
I'm a 28-year-old guy from New Zealand (NZST timezone), (Ethnicity: Indian) looking for a patient and experienced online Dom to help me explore and deepen my submissive side. I have some prior experience but I want to take things gradually, building up intensity and commitment over time as trust grows. I'm open to both casual dynamics or something longer-term – we can easily start casual and see how it develops from there.
Stats: 85.6kg, 5'7", average/stocky build, hairy. I'm not muscular or athletic – I've got a very average, stocky body and I'm actively working on my fitness, but if you're after a ripped, well-built sub then I might not be the right fit for you.
What I'm craving is structured ownership that starts gradual and grows stricter. My main interests are:
- Gradual strict control and rules that increase in intensity
- Gradual long-term chastity training and enforcement
- Obedience, daily tasks, accountability, and structure
- Pretty much any other kinks you want to introduce – my limits are very open and I'm eager to explore more
**Hard limits:** Findom, blackmail, permanent marks/injuries, scat, sounding,exposure. Everything else is on the table.
I'm after something consistent and real – not just random chat. A Dom who knows how to start slow, set clear expectations, and methodically push me deeper into submission while respecting my current level of experience. Distance isn't an issue since this is online only.
If you're an experienced Dom who wants a dedicated, eager sub ready to hand over control step by step and follow your lead as we build something deeper (whether it stays casual or grows into long-term), send me a message. Tell me about your style, what kind of gradual dynamic you're looking for, and how you would start training a sub like me.
Looking forward to hearing from you.