u/Slight-Mess-69

28M Looking for a Dominant.

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Hey there,

I'm a 28-year-old guy from New Zealand (NZST timezone), (Ethnicity: Indian) looking for a patient and experienced online Dom to help me explore and deepen my submissive side. I have some prior experience but I want to take things gradually, building up intensity and commitment over time as trust grows. I'm open to both casual dynamics or something longer-term – we can easily start casual and see how it develops from there.

Stats: 85.6kg, 5'7", average/stocky build, hairy. I'm not muscular or athletic – I've got a very average, stocky body and I'm actively working on my fitness, but if you're after a ripped, well-built sub then I might not be the right fit for you.

What I'm craving is structured ownership that starts gradual and grows stricter. My main interests are:

- Gradual strict control and rules that increase in intensity

- Gradual long-term chastity training and enforcement

- Obedience, daily tasks, accountability, and structure

- Pretty much any other kinks you want to introduce – my limits are very open and I'm eager to explore more

**Hard limits:** Findom, blackmail, permanent marks/injuries, scat, sounding,exposure. Everything else is on the table.

I'm after something consistent and real – not just random chat. A Dom who knows how to start slow, set clear expectations, and methodically push me deeper into submission while respecting my current level of experience. Distance isn't an issue since this is online only.

If you're an experienced Dom who wants a dedicated, eager sub ready to hand over control step by step and follow your lead as we build something deeper (whether it stays casual or grows into long-term), send me a message. Tell me about your style, what kind of gradual dynamic you're looking for, and how you would start training a sub like me.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/Slight-Mess-69 — 12 hours ago
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[B4T] From Pen Pals to Something Much More

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\*I am 18+ and all characters and participants in this RP are 18+ as well.\*

\*It all started as a prescription, a way to connect with someone my therapist said. After the devastating loss of my parents, I was lonely and depressed, that is when my therapist suggested to try this Pen pal service that connected normal people with convicts inside a prison. She said that it was a good way for me to talk to someone who didn't know me and also for the person on the other hand because Prison can mess with people's mental health. So without giving much thought I wrote a letter, it was vague, it was general and I didn't expect a reply but I got one. One letter became two, two became three and it just continued. We talked about all sorts of things, from general day to day things to philosophy or just any topic. I never knew anything about him other than his name, and he knew the same. What started as one letter continued for 5 years, and now he was bieng released and I just felt like I had to help him, maybe just until he gets to his feet in the world after all he was getting out of prison for so long. My friend told me that it was a bad idea, I didn't know what he looked like, what he did to get into prison and it just sounded dangerous but I just didn't feel the same. So here I was, waiting outside the prison, leaning against my car waiting for him to come out, the only thing he said in his last letter was that he'd be wearing a red hoodie.\*

Hey everyone, I am looking for a RP based on the prompt above, I have left out the background of the character in prison completely open. What was he convicted for, how old is he, how he looks all is upto discussion. All I am hoping for is that a relationship which started as Pen Pals, turns into something much more. Now it can turn it on a sweet love story, a story of starting over, a love story that turns dark and dangerous, maybe your character isn't reformed. Everything is open and can be discussed.

If this sounds interesting to you, then please reach out and I'd be happy to discuss more. I can roleplay on reddit or on discord.

I am very very open in terms of kinks, so bring any kinks you'd want and I'd be happy to include them.

My limits are snuff, vore, Scat, sounding.

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u/Slight-Mess-69 — 6 days ago

[B4T] From Pen Pals to something much more.

*I am 18+ and all characters and participants in this RP are 18+ as well.*

*It all started as a prescription, a way to connect with someone my therapist said. After the devastating loss of my parents, I was lonely and depressed, that is when my therapist suggested to try this Pen pal service that connected normal people with convicts inside a prison. She said that it was a good way for me to talk to someone who didn't know me and also for the person on the other hand because Prison can mess with people's mental health. So without giving much thought I wrote a letter, it was vague, it was general and I didn't expect a reply but I got one. One letter became two, two became three and it just continued. We talked about all sorts of things, from general day to day things to philosophy or just any topic. I never knew anything about him other than his name, and he knew the same. What started as one letter continued for 5 years, and now he was bieng released and I just felt like I had to help him, maybe just until he gets to his feet in the world after all he was getting out of prison for so long. My friend told me that it was a bad idea, I didn't know what he looked like, what he did to get into prison and it just sounded dangerous but I just didn't feel the same. So here I was, waiting outside the prison, leaning against my car waiting for him to come out, the only thing he said in his last letter was that he'd be wearing a red hoodie.*

Hey everyone, I am looking for a RP based on the prompt above, I have left out the background of the character in prison completely open. What was he convicted for, how old is he, how he looks all is upto discussion. All I am hoping for is that a relationship which started as Pen Pals, turns into something much more. Now it can turn it on a sweet love story, a story of starting over, a love story that turns dark and dangerous, maybe your character isn't reformed. Everything is open and can be discussed.

If this sounds interesting to you, then please reach out and I'd be happy to discuss more. I can roleplay on reddit or on discord.

I am very very open in terms of kinks, so bring any kinks you'd want and I'd be happy to include them.

My limits are snuff, vore, Scat, sounding.

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u/Slight-Mess-69 — 14 days ago