u/SpecialistSurprise23

So I’m looking for advice from dommes who’ve been doing this for a while, because I feel like social media makes this world look WAY faster/easier than it actually is.

I’ve been trying to break into findom/femdom spaces for about two months now. I had a Twitter/X account that was starting to grow a little before it got deleted, and now I’m basically rebuilding from scratch.

One thing I keep noticing is that a lot of bigger Twitter dommes make it seem like good, genuine subs just appear overnight , like within hours or days — but that really hasn’t been my experience at all. Mostly it’s been scammers, time wasters, fake “paypigs,” and people wanting attention for free.

So for the dommes who’ve actually built a consistent following/client base:

• What genuinely worked for you in the beginning?
• How long did it realistically take before you started getting regular sends or loyal subs?
• How did you weed out scammers and fake subs early on?
• What kind of posts/content actually got you traction?
• Did you focus more on personality, aesthetics, humiliation, soft domme energy, etc?
• Were there specific platforms or communities that helped more than others?

I’m not expecting instant money or some magic formula, I just want realistic advice from people who’ve actually done this successfully and figured out how to stand out without burning out.

Would really appreciate honesty/advice from experienced dommes 🤍