u/Spirited-Rhubarb-354

26[F4M] forcing an organic encounter?

i'm turning 27 this year and unfortunately the organic encounters have not been Encountering™️. i've been told i'm a little intimidating and i do have a track record of turning down guys (because i refuse to compromise my standards... which i think are reasonable 😭), so i have been, in the words of the great sabrina carpenter, "so long, untouched, bone-dry not a plant can grow."

what am i doing here? well, i have a friend who found someone here (and it worked out okay?) and another friend who's testing the waters right now and found it... not too terrible so far, so. i thought—why not? using a throwaway too just so i can make a quick exit as necessary, lol.

that said, i'm looking for something. a connection, maybe, that might ripen into something more? or maybe just someone to make out with sometimes, hah.

a description, if that helps:

  • 5'1", reasonably fit, and pretty curvy;
  • a solid 8/10 (according to various aunties and uncles);
  • big 3 graduate (if that matters);
  • well-spoken and well-traveled;
  • quintessential eldest daughter vibes;
  • dark brown, wavy hair and mestiza features.

looking for:

  • someone taller than me;
  • reasonably handsome (lol);
  • intelligent (please);
  • thinks with the head up top first before the one down below;
  • kind (please).

if you've made it this far, another thing i ask is that you don't open with vulgarity and immediate propositioning. what happened to good conversation! to, as my friend bemoaned, "the art of seduction"! anyway: have a great evening ♥️

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u/Spirited-Rhubarb-354 — 12 hours ago